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My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
Austin and I are like best friends. So does she think I'm a cow too? How can she look down on all these girls who aren't even all that fat and not look down on me? (link)
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I think your friend is just trying to make herself look good, or trying to give herself more self-esteem.
Maybe you should remind her that she was once fat and that she didn't like it when people made fun of her (if they did) so she shouldn't poke fun at them.
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ok i have a really good friend and she is hurting herself by like throwing herself into walls durring school because i think she is depressed. It seems like she really doesn't want to talk about it to anyone. The other day she almost cracked her head open. (she kind of did or maybe she just got a cut on it and it started bleeding because she was banging her head on the lockers) ya i know it sound phsyco...but i don't want her 2 be like this! i mean 2day she was slamming her head against the concrete until i made her stop! what should i do to get her to either tell me whats going on or to stop her from hurting herself????? (i rate high)
ThAnKs A BuNcH!
-*Marissa*- (link)
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1. Your friend could be doing it for attention because she's phsyco!
2. She has a serious problem. Talk to her parents about it. or talk to the school counsler.(I recomend talking to the parents more because schools just want to call social services on people)
3. tell her to stop acting like a reject and stop banging herself in the walls becuase she's losing the little brain cells she got left! Tell her that you worry a lot about her and if she doesn't stop your going to tell her parents.
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Alrite well I started talking to this guy my friend use to see i guess...sort of...they had sex if that matters....hes funni and stuff and i like him and i might hang out with him this weekend .. he told my friend that he might hangout with me and shes like oh really? and im like haha i dont kno... im not sure if shes mad or not tho...she has a bf that shes in love with so i dont think it should matter...i just want to hang out with him as friends and stuff i dont think it would go much further than that. so my question is do u think she should be mad? and do u think that im doing something wrong by hanging out with him ? (link)
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I don't think there is anything wrong with hanging out with him. Some people will think it's totally wrong because it was your friends ex (if you want to call it that) and it's about the "friendship code" I for one don't think it's wrong you can't help who you like. and if Your friend is in love with the guy she's going out with like she says she shouldn't be mad or whatever. I think you should hang out with him. and if she doesn't like it remind her that she's in love with someone right now and should'nt even care. there's nothing wrong with hanging out with a friend...
Manda
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