hey. my name is ashley and i started this advice colomn a long time ago but just started using it a lot now. you cna talk to me about anything. i am always giving friends my advice and usually things always work out. i hope all my advice helps everyone !!!
xOx ash-
my sn - x0O ASHL3Y
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Is it just me or would it be strange to buy a camper/trailer with your wife and instead of having one bed for the two of you there are two small bunk beds?
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well if your only going camping then its fune. if it was in your home then yes it would be weird. but since its a camper/trailer i guess its fine.
xOx -ash
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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me... (link)
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just ask your parents. im sure they will understand if you really wanna go. and say youll bee sleeping in another room. that always helps =]
xOx ash-
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I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do? (link)
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tell her that you liked him and you wanted to go out with him. If she doesnt understand then shes not a true friend. Just say that you can be good friends with both
xOx ash-
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Three girls. Used to be friends with them. Now I'm not (long story) and they're bitching about me behind my back. The part that makes it upsetting is that act really lovely to me when I'm around... and I'm a trusting kind of person. It took ages for me to believe it.
Would you please tell me what to do? Is it better to...
1)...confront them, and a)hold a grudge b)forgive them OR
2)...ignore them, and a) hold a grudge b)forgive them.
3)start a hate campaign.
Or if you have an alternative I'd be glad to hear it (but I'm not changing schools!) (link)
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i think you should be mad at them or forgive them, . depending on what they are saying. if its something really bad i would get pissed. im not sayiing you should get mad but i would because saying shit behind ur back is stupid and pointless especially if they act like little angels infront of u
xOx ash-
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Well, there is these 2 guys that my friend and I have become friends with. I liked this one kid for a while. I figured I did'nt have a chance. Then, the other boy was kind of flirting with me more and more, seeming like he wanted me to like him. Over time I started liking him. My friend likes him alot also! She has liked him from the beginning. This boy dosent really know her well, he dosent even know her name and she is obsessed with him.S0O, I finally told my friend that I liked him and she flipped ! About a week later she got over it and told me she had no problem. Then , everyday since then shes supposebly going through depression and everyday she either "hates" him or "loves" him and she changes her mind. S0O, I put this kid in my profile thinking ok, she has no problem with me liking him. The next day her sister i/med me online saying a real friend dosent do that, shes always crying ( mean while , im still thinking she dosent care ) and he sister was being really mean ! S0O, i was like im done with this! I called my friend and was like fine Id ont like him anymore! But, I KNOW i still like him alot ! What do I do, please help I can't talk to anyone about this !!!! (link)
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well you cant help who you like and dont like. your friend should just acctept the fact that he probably likes you. Since he doesnt bascially know she exists then she shouldn`t mind at all. just tell her you cant help it and maybe it will work.
i hope i helped!!!
sn -- x huggablle
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Okay. So I have been really unhappy all of this year. For reasons I don't wish to explain. But the thing is, I hate the town I live in and I hate most of the people that go to my school because they make my life a living hell. So now I have a chance to move. It's totally my decision, my mom doesn't care either way; going or staying. My best friend knows this. But he said that if I move that he won't talk to me or call me anymore. But see; He is going to a different school anyway this year. So what is the difference in me staying or me going. I'd only be moving a little bit away. If I stayed the only time we'd get to see each other is on the weekends and it would be the same if i moved! and we could still talk on the phone EVERY NIGHT. He doesn't understand. What do I do? (link)
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well just tell him and you should move if you dont like ur surroundings. just explain that you are going to see him the same amount as you wil if you stayed.
hope it helps!
sn - x huggablle
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Hi im jessica .. lol im coping of the girl emily... well any way one of our losers is being realy mean to everybody and we dont even no if he wants 2 b a loser any more but hes not tlaking to any body but me and blocks every1 else but when he startes talking to me and i say do u wanna b a loser he just ignores muh.... what should we do?? (link)
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lol i asked him too...jsut say like if yew dun answer meeh then i guess its a no right??
hope that helped!!
my screenname-- x huggablle
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Well im 12 yrs old and i was wondering how i could make some money this summer..i really dont know what to do though....any job suggestions?
Singed,
Jobless (link)
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well i know that some of my friends got jobs as C.I.T's (councelors in training) like at a preschool working with little babies or younger kids. Or maybe a busboy.
Hope that helped!!!
my screenname--x huggablle
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there is this 1 grl named justyna n she goes to a polish school n has friends there. And now all she talks about and hangs out with are the girls from the polish school. But then she is gonna complain that noone likes her anymore. And i told her that no one is talking to you or asking you to hang out cause your too wraped up in ur new friends and you forgot about all your old friends. now am i wrong for doing that?. (link)
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no, your not wrong. If shes to wrapped up in the school then she has to realize it...
hope I answereed your question. If you need to talk more then im me .. x huggablle
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