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Alright my friend is really nice and al but she can bug me so much. Sometimes all she talks about is her other friend who is not @ our school. She calls her her BFF when she hardly see's her and i am standing right their!!! I mean we spend every minute of the day together and tell all our secrets with each other. It is almost like we are sisters. But all she can talk about sometimes is her friend emily. I dont know if i am jeleous or if she is trying to give me a hint??? IDK where our friendship stands. When someone asks who her bff is she says EMILY :( and im right their. And also i know Emily to and she said that she is not her BFF. So do i tell her that. ?
It just dosent make sense concidering we hang out 24/7 and they do maybey 1 or 2 times a week max. IS SHE MY FRIEND OR NOT???
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Well ask her do you consider me your best friend? It wouldn't hurt, you guys are allowed to have more than one BEST friend, tell her how you feel. Maybe it'll sweeten up the situation. Don't let it get to you, she might do it just to bother you.
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So I've been "best friends" with this girl for about like 3 years now. She's SUPER clingy to me. She always needs to know where I am and who I'm with if I'm not hanging out with her. If I tell her I can't hang out with her, she'll ask why, who are you with? Anyways, she and I and another girl are all BFF's. But this girl who's super clingy, let's call her Jane. She's always talking crap about the other girl,(let's call her Sara). Jane always vents to me about Sara and how much she hates her, and yet Jane is so nice, but it's all fake to Sara's face. And Sara and I are closer, so I tell Sara what Jane says about her.
As of right now, I don't want to hang out with Jane anymore. She tells me that she hates all the people in the group that we hang out with and she can't stand any of them. She's ALWAYS fake with them if she sees them, and she's always clinging onto me. I'm so sick of her crap. She brings drama to my life. And she's so dramatic, it's sick. I mean, I don't want to be mean and delete her out of my life. But what should I do?
The thing is, if I sit down and talk to her about it, she'll be like "oh i'm sorry." And then she'll talk behind my back with someone else. Which I know she does.
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Best friend's? No, a best friend doesn't do that! Has she been like that all the 3 years? If not, she's jealous since you've gotten closer to your other friends. You don't need to put up w anything that include's drama or someone who is fake and a hypocrit. Be upfront about it, if she talks crap? Who cares, you shouldn't care what people say about you. You have plenty of best friends, you'll live and if you do really care what she says about you just slowly grow apart from her and then after keep a distance. It might hurt, but it happen's. Then eventually you'll notice how your life would be at ease and relaxing.
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