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I am 29 yrs old. I dont have any friends.I have a wonderful boyfriend who is very outgoing and confident.Every now and then he says I need to make some friends. I cant. What do I do, call some girl up and say will you be my friend?? How cheesy. I go out with him where his friends hang out but no one engages conversation with me.They do for a minute then go. I am an attractive person that is not the problem. But how does someone who was abused as a child, not allowed to have friends, phonecalls or sleepovers, and a 10 year marriage where I was not allowed to work or have friends, change and get friendships. It seems so out of reach for me.Help!!! (link)
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try making friends at work. Or maybe in the park. For workbe like "Hey. How are you I am so starved do you want to grab some luch" or invite a few people "Hey! My boyfriend and I are having a dinner party can you come?". For the park if you see someone sitting on a bench reading a book sit down next to them and say "What are you reading?" if you have read one of their books be like "Oh I love he/she have you read...?"
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okay im crying right now because i called my friend earlier today an no one picked up, so i called 3 hours later an she picks up(i was suppose to be going to her house) she picks an says,"why d you keep calling?!!??! can you please stop!!!! like please!!!! your distracting me" i say okay an then she hangs up
well she is a really great friend but gets mad easily
im really sad because i htink she hates me now
for sure
what do i do? (link)
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im not saying this is true but maybe your being a little to clingy. Sometimes my friends and i talk about going over to each others houses but were not totally sure about it. Maybe at school you should try to be less clingy or find new friends.
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