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Q: there is this 1 girl who is friends with my best friend. she has been very rude to me and saying i have no friends and i know i have way more friends then her! shes bein a real biatch plz hlp!
OMG. im in the same sitcuation. ok well what you should do is try to make common ground and see what you both like. IF that doesnt work(it worked for awhile for me) then annoy the crap out of her. it works sooo much. you can also tell your friend to tell her that she needs to stop being mean. it worked for me! ask me for advice anytime!

Q: me and my friend have been splitting apart ever sence he went out with this one girl. i really want to be friends with him still, and i also kind of like him, could you please give me the best advise for this because he means alot to me! thanks!!
Even though you are splitting apart you should not let your feelings get in the way right now you should focus on trying to start to get to be a better friend again and then show some of your feelings. you have to show him that you can be a friend with him before you become a gf.ask again if you need anything else.

Q: Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).

The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very alone this year. Especially because two of our friends moved away over the summer.

We want to have a good relationship with eachother, but are pretty much clueless on how to accomplish this goal. So, how can we bring our group back together?

Thanks
Ok, well you see I am basically in the same sitch my friends are splitting because we all have different friends we hang out with now, but the thing is we get aggrivated with eachother a lot more than we used to but what i do is try to keep in touch with my friends on the phone at least once a week call them. Us four it was 3 guys and a girl and she split from the group and then we all fell apart. We still see eachother we hate school cuz we are fishy now and we liked it a lot more back in middle school. Me and my old friend have started to hate eachother with a STRONG passion.he was in the group.well see i still see him everyday we talk but we dont talk if we dont have to. We are going to go ice skating this saturday and i am hoping they all will come and maybe we can connect on something we all like to do. I hope i helped i know how it feels for a friend to move away because my friend moved over the summer. well good luck just try to find common ground and connect on that level ok i hope it is good advice. ask me anytime.

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