Hello every one my name is Alyssa. I can help with basically any question. But I really like it when people give feedback. I am really into horses and I do barrel racing, wetern pleasure, showmanship, polebending, and more. I also do gymanstics and soccer. I have also tryed about every sport out their too. I have 5 people in my family my mom my dad my sister and my brother. I have 3 dogs 1 cat 2 rabbits i have 3 horses that are my show horses then the whole family we have a total of 11. You can always ask me any question. Even if I don't know what to say I will try to help. Or I will dig up some info on it to answer your question. So feel free to drop one in the inbox or email or what ever any time. Good luck in the future to every body.
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I`m going to start out by saying this will be long, but thanks so much to anyone who reads this all and helps me out.
I have this best friend, Casey. Words cannot descibe how much of a bff she is to me. She knows everything about me, and always knows what I`m about to say. Were with each other 24/7 and we hardly fight. She`s practicly my sister, we do everything together.
A week ago, she got this new boyfriend, this guy that I didn't like before she started dating him. His name is Nick, he`s 12, shes 13. Casey is a virgin, he isn`t. They`ve already done sexual stuff together and its their first stupid week together.
Last night I was hanging out with both of them and Nick lit up a ciggarrette, and exchanged some pot with another older guy. He offered us both some, Casey would have taken some, but didn't when she saw how mad I got. We were way back on the golf cart paths somewhere, and it was raining, I didn`t want to be in the situation so I started crying and ran away. I was lost along the paths cause I had no clue where I was. Casey didn`t follow me, even though she promised me earlier if I wanted to leave she would come with me. Nick chased after me, blew smoke all over me, and burned me with his ciggarette to make fun of me. I ended up calling Jordan, my other best guy friend, he and his mom drove 45 minutes back into the woods to pick me up only to find I was stained with the smell of ciggarrets, and crying all alone, cause I knew my best friend was slipping away. I don`t know what to do, she used to be a good girl, she never would have done any of this. Now she won`t listen to me, at all, she said she`ll never accept any of the drugs, but I know she will, she almost took them last night and she told me "they were no big deal" She got mad at me when I left cause I was being "immature and embarrassing her" When my dad picked me up, after Jordan dropped me off at her house, he smelt me and now he thinks I`m a smoker, and won`t belive that it wasn`t me. What should I do? PLEASE PLEASE guys, I`m really upset, I`m losing her, please. (link)
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Ok, well I think you need to email or wright your friend and tell her how you feel, somtimes wrighting can meen more than words! If she dose't respond to any of that then I would say it is time to talk to her parents about it or some one important to her! That boy he is no no no no no no no no no no no no no no good! He is 12 and doing all of that! That is horrible, and you can't change him stay AWAY! But seriously get your friend help. Before she get's to far and becomes addicted to drug and stuff like that! For your dad thinking you smoke well all you can do is tell him I am sorry Dad but you need to beleive me that I am not smoking! i don't want you to think that. He may watch you very closley for a while but after a while the tention should loosen up and he should get over it! But other than that I don't know what to say! Hope this helps! Good luck in the future!
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i recently learned that one of my very close friends is bisexual. She didnt tell me, i just kinda found out through the grapevine. Well, I'm fully supportive of her and everything, but I just dont know how to deal with it. How do i tell her I know? I dont want things to be different between us, because we're really good friends. Help please.
Sincerely,
Confused (link)
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Honestly you don't have to tell her. If she wants to tell you on her own time thats fine. Or if you think it is true and you want her to know than you can play it cool by saying.... Well i have been hearing rumors that you are bi? Is this true? If it is I fully support you. And I don't want things to change between us. So really it depends if you think she needs to know or not. Hope this helps. Good Luck In The Future.
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Me and my firend have been best firend sence 2nd grade (now were in highschool).We had a little fight(blown out of proportion)our first fight! and we have been firends for like 8 years. Anyway that was months ago it only lasted about two days.I have noticed that our firendship seems to be fading. One of my other firend amy has been hanging with my bestfirend alot, basically everyday. She barly hangs out with me let alone anyone else now adays because she is always with amy. I feel bad and don't want to say anything because amy died died last summer and she really needs someone to support her. My other firends also commented on her always with amy and she got really mad.What should I do? Just stand back and watch our firendship fade? (link)
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well i am sorry she died but your story is hard to follow. But what I think you need to do is to go email or somthing like that to you bestfriend and say look im sorry! If she writes back rood comments then switch the subject on her to somthing that good and fun has happened between the 2 of you! This was my friendship keeper with my bff and know we are the same and never talk about the fight we got over we have been bff's for 13 years and were only 14! So just be friendly and things sgould get back on the easy track again soon and if it dosent work shes not worth your time and sadness of stressing! So I hope I helped. Good Luck
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