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Yep, again the same girl I'm always talking about. I just adore the girl, and whenever I get into scenarios beyond my control, I ask the people who are experienced with this type of stuff.

Anyhow, we've been good friends for about 6 1/2 months now. We started out talking about casual stuff, harmless subjects, ect. Which grew into a bit more of a stronger friendship, and she's told me she's comfortable with me, I'm one of the few people she trusts. Anyhow, we tried the dating thing for about two weeks, and she was worried that one of us would be hurt in the relationship, incase we found someone else, or just ended up hurting each other, so we broke it off.

After taking a break for a couple days from talking, we resumed talking, but it was weird. We're back to just casual/harmless stuff, and now it's grown into more of a "personnal" conversation. She even she told me she loved me, which she hasn't told me in a couple of months.

So my question is, do you guys think she may be interested in me again, or am I just getting hopeful? (link)
ok well my guess is that shes interested in you, to be honest i dont think she ever became uninterested. if she was worried that one of you were gonna get hurt in the realtionship, obviously she shows that she cares and doesnt want you to get hurt like that.if shes comfortable with you..thats also a good thing too.im sure shes been acting flirty around to, of course i cant be sure but it seems like she would be..so anyways i dont wanna make you read like a whole page or anything lol but i would definatly say shes interested and to keep talking and maybe things will turn out better then you think they will.


Kathy does not want to be my friend.She and I have try for years to be friends.It will never work out with her and I. (link)
then why are you wasting your time with her?


can you be my support system friend.I need more friends to talk to.I still really want to tell Kathy what I feel about her online but if i do that she and I will keep fighting on and off.Do you think Kathy and I will ever be friends again.We been friends on and off since 2003 and I want this game with her and I to stop for good. (link)
sure ill be your support system, thats what im here for =] I think that you should tell her how you feel and tell her that your ready to try and be friends with her again for good. do you think she wants to be friends with you as much as you want to be friends with her? cause if she does then you two should just work out your differences and the reasons why you fight and then you should have no problems becoming friends again.


Why do I keep pushing people away from me when I used to be friends with them.I was friends with this girl Kathy on and off for years.We are friends one day the next day we are not friends.How do I give up on her and forget about her.It gotten to the point I am on medication for my mood swings and control my urge to contact her.I am seeing a doctor for this problem. What else can I do. (link)
I think that you need to take it slow..forgetting about a friend doesn't happen overnight.A good idea would be to get another friend and become good friends with that person, that way you wont have your mind on Kathy the whole time. Or when you get the urge to contact her, call someone else or go hang out with some other people...do that long enough and you should see some results. Hope I could be some help to you =]




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