Well I met this guy we'll call him "S" and i started talking to him online about a week or so ago i met him through a friend of mine and i recently hung out with him about 5 days ago and I'm really into him but i feel like its too quick and i don't want to tell him and scare him off... i've been through some tough times with guys and i don't want to screw things up i don't know what to do and sometimes i feel i can't keep up conversation with him what do i do to get him to maybe look into me as maybe more than a friend i broke up with one of his friends about a month and a half ago too which is also weird i mean when we hung out it was obvoius we wer flirting a lot but i want a guy that won't use me for just ass i feel stupid what should i do? it seems i always find myself getting hurt
well i think that you should more so hang out some more and throw some lirt moves on him and give him some hints that you like him and maybe he will recieve and act more flirtish to you. Then you try and move in on him. If he doesnt like that then he will uickly show you and you stop and hang out more and then wait untill the right time and tell himhow you feel because you cant jsut keep it from him forever and you never know it but maybe he likes you to like that and there you go a perfect relationship! hope ive helped!
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soo i have this girl friend n shes cool and all, but everytime we go to the mall, or were down the shore on the boardwalk or something, she always gets the guys. Shes pretty and all but some of my friends dont think shes the prettiest girl in the world half of them sey im prettier then her. It doesnt really bug me, but im more outgoing n i speak for myself n im always the one doing everything for her and talking to the hott guys for her cause she cant do it herself. I dont know what to do cause the guys see right through me and onto her even though i'm the one usually the guys go for when im not with her. I dont know if i should let it go or talk to her or what? But when im not with her i get the guys n all my other friends get mad at me? pleease help!
look your friend shouldn't get mad at you b/c guys liek you more than they like them thats truly not fair on your behalf and tell your friend that she needs to speak for herself instead of you speaking for her b/c some guys might not like that and then can get turned off b/c of that fact. and hunnie you go and liek the guys that you like and if your friendsz get mad at you because of that then they are really never your friends from the begining! -hope i helped!
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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!
Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend
i can see that you really care about this girl as your friend and well you consider her feelings but you have your own feelings to and if you talked to her about it chances are she might not get mad and tell you to go for it but you and a friend should never fight over a boy but if she doesnt like that fact that you went out to the mall with him and she gets all mad then truely hunnie she was never a friend to begin with. so i say have fun and see how things flow with this man and hopefully you and your friend will be able to work out your problems! hope i've helped!
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