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Age: 15
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16/f. (might be wrong category..sorry) This could be very long and its sort of a rant. I need help. Please.
I'm a very introverted person. Sometimes I would be so extremely happy because I have nothing big due in school and because my social life is okay. Just okay. And other times, I'd just lock myself in my room, and have that stressful atmosphere weigh me down, while I, comforted by the quiet room, would do my homework in silence. Or read. Or just be on the computer. At moments like these, I'd just reject the entire world and act moody towards everything and anything that moves or talks. I don't have many friends, and the ones that I have provide no comfort or happiness to me. I have no boyfriend and never did. And I long for male affection. I have no affection from anyone at all. My parents...I don't want them near me. I talk to them and we're okay sometimes. But I just want them farther away from me. I'm desperate for that tiny ounce of male affection and whenever a male hugs me, I realllllyyyyyyyyy just enjoy that moment. I don't know how to go about getting a boyfriend though, and so I sink in my own loneliness and despair.
I just don't know WHAT to do about this. I don't know where to turn.
I have been told that I'm good looking and smart. By many people. Yet I don't believe any of it. x_x I'm lost. ..Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Just, any.
Sincerely,
Lost and Confused.
Thank you so much in advance. (link)
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Dear lost and confused,
maybe no guys will date you because you dont really talk to many people, GET YOURSELF KNOWN!
dont be so shy, meet new people, introduce yourself.
guys will start falling for you if you do cute things for them, or if your just being yourself, dont try to be someone your not.
but you can't be depressed all the time because then no one will want to talk to you and it will just make things worse.
hope I helped darling.
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Well first of all I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and My friend (one of the people that kinda hooked us up) is friends with him but is always saying she hates him to me and yeah it kinda puts me down because I want my best friend to like my boyfriend...I just don't know and yeah I know I need to talk to her about this I just don't know what to say and how to say it...Because she gets mad really fast at small things and yeah I just need to know how I can tell her that I don't like it when she says things like that about my boyfriend I don't think she is very supportive of me...I think she might be jealous because she can't find a guy that will stay with her for more than a week...Please help me!!! Thanx!!!! (link)
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Okay well if she gets really mad easily dont tell her you think she is jealous, just tell her "You're my bestfriend and I really like this boy and I want you to be supportive of my decision of being with him because right now I dont think you do"
and maybe you should reconsider being bestfriends with someone who isnt supportive of your decisions.
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