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My name is Arielle, I'm 17 years old, but I know a lot about most things. I'm pregnant, and have learned a lot from the process. I'm a Christian, I'm in love, and everyone I know says I give really good advice. I will not answer your question if I feel like I couldn't give you good advice on it, but I will tell you I don't feel comfortable answering it. I won't just leave you hanging. Just a reminder that my advice is my opinion of the best solution for your situation with the information you give me, however, I can never fully know the situation, or your background. So if you do not feel comfortable with the advice I give you, please, go with your heart. That is the best advice I can give anyone FOLLOW YOUR HEART.



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"Humble yourself, therefore, under God's mighty hand, and He will lift you up in due time. Cast all your worries on Him because He cares for you."

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I really need help! Me and this guy, lets call him X, are like buds, but everyone teases me, especially this one guy, lets call him B, about us being in love! it is driving me crazy!!!!!!! This guy,B, ALWAYS teases me and says,"hey, why dont you go to X?" Where is X? Why dont you go to him!" it is soo annoying i want to PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE. LITERALLY.(I cant though, school would get me in troulbe, ahaha.) anyways, I need something to get guy B off of my back!
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But... I really have a strong feeling that guy X like likes me.

There are always going to be people like guy B that just don't understand that boys and girls can actually just be friends without liking each other. There really isn't much you can do to get rid of guy B. Usually the best thing to do is to just ignore him when he starts saying these things, give him no response at all. Don't get mad. Don't try to tell him it's not true, because then it may make you look like you're just trying to deny it, or you are embarrassed. If you ignore him, chances are he'll get bored because he's not getting to you anymore and leave you a lone. I know it's hard to do, but it usually works. As far as guy X goes, if you really do just want to be friends, and if you are really good friends, I think you should talk to him, and make sure HE knows your intentions. If you are good friends, you wouldn't want to ruin that friendship by accidentally leading him on. Make sure he knows you just want to be friends.
Good Luck : )

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there's a taken guy(gabe)i've been talking to and he gives me the greatest feeling in the world.
but he asks me some personal stuff and i answer and i feel like we're friends and then i just think in the back of my mind that he's just using me. i've been going through something really hard and he said no matter what he'd be there and he's glad we started talking. and even one night he told me that i was a great girl and would make some really lucky guy really happy!
what the heeeck??
he says he'll never like another girl b/c of his girlfriend...i'm not sure i believe that..
he just.. gives me this feeling.

anything will do =)

Now, I don't know enough about this Gabe to be able to tell for sure, but he reminds me a lot of an ex-boyfriend I once had. Before we started dating, he said we were "best friends", and I totally bought it. He was dating one of my best girlfriends, and I just thought that we were getting close because of her. However, something didn't seem right. He started calling me late at night, and then he would give me all the details of their relationship. At the beginning, he said the same things as Gabe here does, that he only liked his girlfriend. But soon it became very obvious this wasn't the case. Later, when I did date him, I realized through myspace and other sources, that he did this to a lot of girls he had recently met. He was what they like to call a PLAYER. Like I said, I don't know enough about Gabe to tell you for sure it's the same circumstance, but if he seems too good to be true, he probably is.

I hope this helps. : )

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Me and a friend that I had been best friends with since third grade were in a huge fight for a year, & just yesterday we apologized to each other. We're friends again, but something doesn't feel right. I still feel guilty/nervous about something, but I can't figure out what it is. It's like I want to be her friend, but I'm scared to? I don't know. How can I stop feeling like this?

It's probably still somewhat awkward for both of you since you were in a fight for a year. You probably still feel like this because somewhere inside of you there are still hurt feelings from whatever happened, and she is probably feeling the same way. My best advice to you would be to simply talk to her about it. My best bet is that if you are feeling this way that she is too, and there are probably some unresolved issues still. If you talk to her i think things will feel better, and you won't be scared to be her friend.

I hope this helps. : )

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