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ok. here's the deal. I loved my boyfriend sooo much. we went out for 3 years. I went to flordia and one of my friends asked him out and he said yes and dumped me. I know...harsh..right?! well...we're still really good friends and him, my bf, and me went swimming bout a week ago and we ended up making out and I almost lost my virginity. He told me that we would go back out. The next day I saw him and his girlfriend making out. I asked him why and he said he was drunk yesturday(of course I didn't believe him) and that he didn't remember a thing. but he really was drunk cause my friend went to a bar before we went swimming and she said he was hammered. So..he said he was really sorry for what we had done and we made up and all that crap. yesturday, he said he was seriously considering goin back out with me and then his gf left and we hung out and he was laying on my lap and and holdin my hand and he kissed me (only a peck) once. Shoould I believe what he says? I really need help! PLEASE HELP! =(

he is an awful person to do that to you. he obviously doesnt know what he wants, and he changes his mind often. if he dumped you for someone once he can do it again. and you might give up some things you wouldnt want to give to someone that shallow, you would regret it. you should find someone new who will treat you better, and not bounce from you to your friend whenever he feels like it.

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i have this friend tht i have known for years and she always seems to beat me at everything music grades, instrumentsand she is better at everything than me such as sports (netball) snd she thinks tht ts a competition. should i dump her as a friend or tell her how i feel?

you should definantly tell her how you feel, but in a nice way, and make sure she knows you want to talk it over and not just stop being friends, and if she cant understand that, then shes not worth keeping.

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