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I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.
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okay so i know you know who this is and i wanted to say sorry and i do mean it.. but you treat me like shit sometimes to and then you never say sorry.. will you text me when your up?
dude. grow up & leave me alonee.
that`s all i'm saying on here so my site doesn't get shut down.
im going to out of tonw with my best friend next week for a week. but see ever since freshmen year started we arent like we have been in 8th grade im scared were going to fight then no one will talk.. and im going with her family so then i'd just be sitting there ... wut do i do so we dont fight?
Me and my friend have the same problem. The only thing you can really do is just don't say stuff that will get her mad, and tell her what gets you mad so neither of you will do it, then you more then likely will get along better. Best of luck, and try to have fun.
my best friend ditches me for her stupidd ass boyfriend. she goes behind my back & msgs him on facebook telling him she wants to do stuff [make out] when she tells me she doesnt do anythingg .. then she tells me shes to scared 2 make out but yet she does. ONLY WHEN I'M NOT THERE. then she is to scared 2 just have it be her and her boyfriend. what do i do i'm sick of getting blown off for this gay ass faggg...
Uhh.. your best friend, isn't what you normally call a best friend. Shes fake, and lies to you about a dumb guy, and you're both going to let this ruin a perfect friendship [before she got the guy i bet you two we're amazing friends, and now your not.. see what guys do?] Don't get mad about the messaging, unless she talks about you, or says wanna have sex or something. which still isn't really your bussiness, but that section is up to you. Making out isn't hard though I mean once you start doing it, it isn't hard to do, i'm sure she didn't really lie about making out, it just comes naturally, to most people. If she only does it when your not there, ask her why should you come or maybe she doesn't want to do it when your there so you don't feel like a third wheel. You have to think of her side of the story to, but she could be replacing you with a dumb guy if you think she is, it isn't hard to figure out. Ask her personally if you should stop being friends & let me know if you need anything else. :] Best of luck!
ur best friend is pregnant . what do you do? just wondering. my bff is pregnant ... and only i know
I'd do nothing. What can you do? I'd probably help her with her choice, And I would for sure want her to keep it. :] I'd come over & help her whenever, but living with me I wouldn't be so sure my parents would let me. Your parents might think something different of her, but I'm sure nothing major will happen. Best of luck
i have an essay due on this tmrw and i cant figure it outt ... so say your best friend right now is fine, pretty & everything. then she found out something was wrong w/ her heart and she was wasnt sure she was gonna live. would you be there for her 24/7? & then say .. she finds out she will live but her face like one of her eyes is shut a lot but she can still see. would u think diff of her? if one of your friends made fun of her.. what would you do ?
I wouldn't do anything. Me and my best friend have been through hell and back freshmen year.. more like drama year & we pretty much stcuk through everything. I'm acutally going to Gulf shores with her friday, I mean shit happens you got to let it happen. If she wasn't going to live, I'd probably be dumb enough to hurt myself, again. And I would be nothing like I am today, it's hard to think about, acutally. ABOSOULTY I would be there 24/7. Why would I care if she has a lazy eye, whats the big problem? NO I would not think different of her, even if this is for an ssay you need to think of your own answers and if you have to rethink missing your best friend if sh died or not accepting her because her eye is closed a little, you don't deserve a best friend because stuff like this happens.
We have been friends since we met in pre-school. We were each other's first friend. We used to hang out all the time. Even though we were so different (I was super-shy and she was more of an outspoken person) we got along better than anyone else. But in school, they put us in classes according to our last name, and we always got separated. In junior high, she started hanging out with the more popular kids, but we were still friends. But then, she stopped hanging out with me, mainly because she was so busy - played about five different sports and dance lessons and babysitting on top of that - because her parents forced her. She hasn't been over to just 'hang out' at my house in about three years. We'll be in high school next year. I've realised that I love her, but the problem is, we're both girls. Her parents are very religious; they don't mind gays, just not near them. Also, in the past few years I've changed a lot...I'm more outspoken, and I suppose you could call me 'Goth' (though I hate labels). I don't get to see her much, but all this is making my head spin. I want to tell her, but I know that if I do, there is definately a strong chance I'll never see her again, and she'll hate me. Help is appriciated.
Just be honest with her. If shes any type of a good friend, she will accept you for being , well you. Chances are she won't love you back, but at least you w ill let her know the truth. If you think she will hate you, let her. Chances are shes fake if she hates you for being anything but stright. Forget what her parents think, they can't force the girl to do anything, or how to pick her friends, or their religion, or their orentiation. It doesn't matterIf you're gay, lez, stright, bi, or anything else, forget what people have to say about you. If they hate you for you, more then likely their jealous. (: & If rumors go around highschool, let them. Just be you, & have fun no matter what. Highschool is a fun time if you get rid of labels, drama, & orentations. Best of luck; inbox me if you need more.
im not mad at her .
im just done with her
she cant accept it ?
im sick of getting treated like this
and being back stabbed .
im not mad ; i'm done.
she doesnt get it.
how CAN she understand me ?
Sounds complicated . Talk to her somehow and let her know you aren't mad; your just done . Tell her your sick of getting treated like this and being back stabbed and your done with second chances. Tell her your done ; don't wait for a response ; walk away. Be the stronger person and don't start drama . But their is always extra room for second/third chances if they were a close friend. Best of luck , Hope I helped! [ ♥ ]
im so sick of wishing i was HER everynight. i cant take it . im sick of wishing i was dead thinking i was dead and crying myself to sleep . shes so much prettier skinner popular then me shes good at everything and shes so HAPPY everything is just perfect im like a raggaty ann doll in a damn barbie world next to her ......
Stop wishing you were her. Find wonderful things about yourself, everyday. Look in the mirror EVERYDAY and find something different, that you know is good and you like about you for that day. You never know how peoples lives are at home, no one does besides them. Maybe she is just a good actor. Don't think that. Everyone is special and unique in their OWN way , maybe you just haven't found yours yet. I'd be glad to talk to you through a website person to person, Let me know. [ ♥ ]
me and my best friend are fighting and like we havent talked for a while.. not like 2 months or a week or something..but for us its been a while cause we are always talking..but it makes me really sad when we dont talk and like it may seem to other ppl that i am having a fine day but on the inside im crying and need my bst friend back to talk to because shes the main person and its hard for me to go through the day.. how can me and her talk? i want to talk to her but i always amke the first move and im scared to cause she might just ignore me or something and i dont want that...help
If you're in highschool it happens but if it's a best friend don't let them go. Why do you act fake not fake but I mean why do you act fine but sad on the inside? Why not talk to another close friend you have. Most highschoolers have text messgaing, try that at first but also remember if you're both mad it probably will get deleted. Just give it time, everyone makes mistakes. Talk face to face, or even through a computer. Both of you have to explain why you're mad and how to fix it, or nothing will happen. Don't always make the first move, it isn't complety up to you. & If she ingores you [I don't think she will if she is a best friend] Keep talking or walk away, She will probably follow. Best of luck; hope I helped! [ ♥ ]
Heyy, Heather. (:
Your pretty much the best person ever.
I couldn't imagine life without you.
Vajayjay advice giver foreverr.
And I'm your pornstar shaver?
Hahaaa. ily.
Hey Alison
Your pretty much the best 8th grader alive
Right back atcha and damn right
so go shave below the belt hahah
I love you chicka. :] [ ♥ ]
DUDE HELP MEE OUTT HERE. MY BEST FRIEND iS TURNiNG SO WEiRD SHE WON'T DRiNK SODA AND SHE WONT EAT AROUND ME NE MORE THEN SHE CALLS HERSELF FAT AND SHE WEiGHTS LIKE 20 POUNDS LESS THEN ME iT PiSSES ME OFF! HOW DO i GiVE HER A HiNT
Haha, your post is really funny. I have the same thing going on with one of my friends. Just let her go, maybe she thinks she is fat. Diet soda doesn't put pounds on you either. I'm sure she e ats just maybe not around you. Go up to her and ask her why won't you eat and drink around me it annoys me. She should get the point if you don't act as close to her to. If it bothers you, you start to excerise & eat healthy with her. [ ♥ ]
13/f/CALI
I loveeeeeeeeee this new kid in my science class he is the best thing around. the only problem is he flirts with everyone and i mean everyone i wanna talk to him more but hes way to caught up in texting or hugging another girl i love him so much he always talks 2 me on aim but never so much in person
[ if only he new. ] ♥
Why don't you try asking him on aim? Theirs nothing wrong with him flirting with other girls, inless you're going out with him. Maybe he's shy around people in person but is fine hiding behind a computer. He doesn't really sound like the best boyfriend to have anyways. My best guess would try and ask him over aim, or face to face of why he ingores you in person but talks over aim. Their isn't anything you can do about himliking/talking/hugging other girls, Sorry.
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ive had the same bff since 6th grade we just started h.s and she met this other girl who goes 2 a diff highschool and she left me i dont wanna talk 2 her im so mad at her idk what to do i miss her inside but i hate her on the out help me plz
You know I had the same exact thing happen to me. And it kills you inside, I just told my friend that if she's keeping this up, mark me out of her friends. I was hurting inside but I also moved on, I don't know if we're best friends yet but I also made tons of other friends, I know you have more then one friend, try hanging out with them. But in the mean time, don't forget about her/him, they've been their to long to just walk away. Don't leave them yet, Just keep trying. [ ♥ ]