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so there is this girl, her name is sara, andi think her last name starts with like a d or something. And so shes been being a total biatchhh lately and like hanging out with all these other guys and being soooo flirtatious. I personally think she might be selling herself out and making herself seem easy. She of course denies the wholeee situation. Any advice?

"Anonymous" (link)
yeah well...i dont know this girl very well, but i would definatly say that if you had a problem with her, you need to tell her to her face...cause i mean, you cant be that big a pussy if your talking trash about her, but you never know, maybe you are...i actually find this quite funny, i would love for you to tell her to her face, then, i would like to be there to see what she does, cause i know that one thing she hates the most is bitches who are too scared to come up to her and tell her stuff to her face...good luck


Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!! (link)
talk over the cell, go to the movies, have a sleep over,...whatever floats your boat


OK i have a problem.. I kind of told my friend i started my period a longggg time ago ( A WHOLE YEAR) so all this time ive bin lieing. Lately my friend was talking 2 my sister and mentioned me and my period. My sister asked if i really did and i said yes. So now i am lieing 2 my sister and my friend but wait it gets WORSE! my friend asked my mom about it ( my friend is like family) and my mom said she didnt think i started! i HATE lieing 2 them about it and everytime i see my mother im worried she'll bring it up! Same with my friend! Please HeLP! (link)
wow, ok..i cant see why you would do that...so many girls wish their period didnt start yet, and so many people dread it...i know that it might make you feel more mature, but there is no reason to lie..you have no idea how annoying it is, but thats ok cause you will know some time soon... dont mention your period anymore..and make sure you tell your mom you dont have it. your mom wont mention it to anyone...as for your sister and your friend, its up to you if you want to tell them, if you dont want to tell them the truth, dont talk about it anymore..


Okay i have this friend named mary, she is one of the popular people and she is so nice, but all my other friend think she is a hoe..but she is not...they say i will turn just liek her is we start being best friends? What should i do? HELP PLZ!
Ashley (link)
people shouldnt tell you who to hang out with...and if you know mary isnt a hoe, then whats the problem. if your friends start to judge you becasue of who you hang out with, then they arent your true friends.


hey i know this girl who got in a fight with this other girl last night because she was tlaking shit about the other girl right in front for her to her best friend. so they got i a fight and the other girl got scared and walked away wat should i do (link)
i dont know what position your coming from...are you friends with the girl who talked shit behind the other girls back, or are you friends with the other girl. you need to give me some more info, like what the situation was, so i can answer it, cause i dont know what your asking...


Hey,
I used to be friends with this girl but she turn into a bitch.we got in a fight and i dont know what to do because she talked about me before...but what should i do or say when she was being a total bitch to me and saying shit right infront of me? (link)
make sure that you let her know, first of all, why you are mad at her...and get the facts straight..let her know that if she has a problem with you, she needs to tell you to your face, not spread rumors and talk shit behind your back, cause then she is not only an immature girl, shes a pussy too...i know it might seem hard, but try not to turn anyone against her, cause this is between you and her...dont get the whole school involved...you guys dont have to be friends anymore, but be the mature one and dont let her get to you... ♥


i like my best friends ...i can talk to him about anything and sometimes if i'm not in a good mood ....everytime .i go to my class ..he there .and like i'm not in a bad mood anymore..like i can't be mad anymore ..er wat should i do (link)
ok well...ive never liked my best frind, but i bet that its tough cause you dont know if he likes you...talk to him and ask him who he likes...tell him that some of your friends said you guys make a cute couple..if he likes you, he'll probably flirt with you more, if not...its better to stay friends ♥


I like this skater guy alot .We started hanging out at lunch alot now . And i talk to him about stuff .But he always tell's me .about the girl he likes. It annoys me ..so nad but i act like i care ..but i don't i like him. What should i do ?.I change when i'm by him i'm not me .My mo even said i've been changing latly, i'm rude nedetive, getin in trouble , wear more black but idk whe i'm with him ....i feel like notin really matterrs to me but him what souldi do ?? help (link)
DONT CHANGE FOR A GUY!!!! if he doesnt like you for the type of person you are, then hes not worth it...tell him you like him alot and that it bothers you that hes always talking about this girl...if he doenst like you, or if he doesnt stop, dont bother talking to him anymore..there are alot of guys out there who will like you for the person you are...be yourself and everything will work out so much better... ♥


i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me (link)
you just need to tell him/her the truth. ur friend would feel worse the later you tell him/her


theres this guy in my school that i like but i dont see him really often. We dont have any classes together and i only see him through the hallways. I really like him though. The only time i get to really talk to him is online. What should i do now?
Stephanie, 16 (link)
the best thing to do is to invite him to the movies with you and some of your, and his friends. make sure that they arent only your friends because this might make him uncomfertable. talk to him some more and get to know him...if he plays a sport, try complementing him...this makes guys feel good, take it slow, but make sure to flirt!!


hey
i have this guy friend that i like to talk to and get along with really well. ive liked him for sometime now but dont know how to tell him i like him. i dont know if the feeling is both ways, but we do flirt. what do i do? (link)
do you have any friends who are good friends with him??? if so...do what girls do best! ask her to ask him if he likes you...dont have her jump all over him, but have her act normal, if not, ask him to go to the movies with you...or hang out more often, tell him that one of your friends thinks you guys make a cute couple...see what he says...dont come off and tell him right away cause you dont know the sutuation real well...talk to him more and keep on flirting...that never hurts ;)




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