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hey zach..i was just wondering, i have this best friend and he's 2 years older than me. we've never been anything more than friends, but i always feel that we should've been...how do i handle that?

I'm sooo sorry i havent answered your question all this time.....i honestly dont know what you could do. i would just tell them how you feel, if you guys really are friends, he/she'll understand.

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i have this friend who thinks she's like really hot, but she's isn't. whenever you're at the mall or w/e she always all "that guy is so staring at me" or "he is so checking me out", when the guy is staring at ME. how can i break it to her w/o wrecking our friendship?

Just be honest and tell her that she's thinking she's so hot and its getting on your nerves. Tell her to stop thinking everyone is looking at her (because they arent) and she has to stop sounding conceted. I hope I helped!

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CA misses you!!!! i miss you!!! come back and visit at least!!! plz!!!!

whootnick, i definetly will!!

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what would you consider as a slut?? me and my friends act like complete sluts but then they get really pissed off at anyone who calls any of us a slut. ive stopped taking it as an insult when people call me a slut. i don't know what to think! plz help.

sluts are considered as the filth of society and people dont like it. take it as an insult. its ok though. if you like acting like a slut, dont let it bother you, show them its the new trend or something. lol. hope i helped. please rate high!!

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14/f

I'm going on a cruise for Christmas. And I went on one a few years ago. The last one i went on I saw tons of hott guys but i was to afraid to say hi. So I spent the entire cruise with my family (which was ok). Well, this time i want to be able to meet people while I'm there. What are some ways to meet new people without being really weird about it? thanks!

you shoud just simply go up to somebody who seems nice enough and just say "hi, how r u enjoying the cruise"? nobody will think you're weird, they'll just take it as being friendly. but if someone likes it, they will surely to you back. =)

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what should i do?my friend is nice to me but she
doesn't talk to me as much she talkes to other people she doesn't even know i feel as if she trys to not talk to me plz HEPL me?

she sounds like a really social person that is so busy talking to everyone, that she doesnt talk to you as much. set her aside and say you feel a little ignored and left out. if shes a good friend, she'll understand and pay a little more attention to you. =)

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Okay so my friend just told me that my other friend got raped about 2 years ago.. and I am just now finding this out. And oh my god, I didn't believe her at first, but I know she wouldn't lie about something like this. Ah I am in total shock, I like still can't believe it. I just don't want to believe it... oh my god but I really need to tell my mom, she's good friends with my friend's mom and she deserves to know. But how in the world do I tell her? I like can't come right out and say it.. ahh I really just want to forget about all this though... HELP!!

i wouldnt say anything because maybe the friend that got raped didnt want you to know, and telling an adult would only upset her. talk to her about it and see how she is doing emotionally. ask her if she would like you to arrange someone to talk to about it, but if she wants to keep it to herself, let her. getting raped is something that the victim has to deal with herself if she wants to.

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Your name was the first I clicked on so mayb you can help me.. I really like this girl. She is so beautiful and shes funny and has a gr8 personality. But there is 1 prob: she has low self-esteem, if I compliment her on her looks she'll try to change the subject or act like she didnt hear what I said!!!! Does this mean she doesnt like me?

this doenst always mean she doesnt like you, unless you feel this vibe from her. her low self esteem is a sign of insecurity and is making her uncomfortable. she needs someone to make her feel a little more secure with herself, thats where you come in. keep at it with the compliments. she will mostly likely open up to you a little more and she'll fell better with herself.

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What do i do if im on a perscription for acne but my bff dosent want to be around me because i have zits?

it doesnt sound like you have a very good friend, if they dont want to be around you because you have zits. its really mean. you have to explain to your friend that its not your fault you have zits and thy need to find a new friend or something. above all, i hope your face gets clearer.

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its sherry

haha, ok, i get it...hi sherry

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