Im Marisa..my friends call me rissa too so call me whichever one you want :) im 13 and i go to rhodes junior high ! I love to talk and im not scared to speak my mind when someone makes me mad or gives me something to speak my mind about! i guess im a fun person? i love acting goofy in places with a lot of people..i guess you could say my friends and i dont mind being the center of attention haha..i laugh a lot and try to make everything as good as it can get! :)and i love giving advice so ask away! feel free to IM me or email me whenever :)
E-mail: xmarisaluvzux@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mesa, AZ
Occupation: Junior high heh
Age: 13
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Yahoo: xmarisaluvzux
Member Since: December 28, 2004
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ehh...what if you have a friend that just seems like they don't like you at all and they just don't really feel like being around you.and it always feels like they're mad at you..i dont know i was just wondering. (link)
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oh my goshhhh im so sorry this took so long to answer! ive been just really like moody lately...so ya im sorry! but anyways...i know how that feels! i guess thats kind of how u find out who your real friends are and how you think your true friends should treat you. and they definately should not act like they dont like you or being around you! thats not a friend! at least not in my perspective! and if they're always mad at you, maybe its not you thats doing something wrong...its probably them. and they're not worth it if they're going to act like that...forget them! but if you want to be nice...hehe then just tell them how you feel and ask them if they really do consider you they're friend truthfully! well i hope that helped! :)
xo-Marisa
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Why does everyone have to be so complicated and mean? (link)
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thats just how a lot of people are! im sorry if they act like that, just try to stay away from people when they act like that, i dont really know how to answer that one very well! sorry :( but whenever people act like that with me i just go off and do things alone. it give me time to cool off when people make me mad or sad, then they'll realize how dumb they were acting..hopefully!
xo-Marisa
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GRR! i try to say sorry to this one person but...she wont talk 2 me:( (link)
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maybe they need some time to cool off and let go of what happened..just give them some time and in time they'll let it go and accept your apology but you gotta give people space sometimes when they're mad at you
xo-Marisa
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everyone i have a friendship with seems to be falling apart like we were never friends...just a while ago all of us were laughing having a great time and now everyone is fighting and saying they're bad friends to eachother when they're not..i just don't know what to do and im completely confused.plz help me!
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well think of reasons why you guys are fighting, are they stupid reasons or good? most likely stupid..thats how it always is with my friends! we always get mad at eachother for the stupidest little reasons we can think of! and its dumb! try writing them notes and tell them all how you feel about this fighting and that you guys need to try and work things out or else you all are gona lose eachother! and im pretty sure none of them are going to want to lose their friends, ask them why they're mad at eachother..remind them about how much fun you all used to have and how you guys could be again...you'll all start missing eachother and want times to be like they used to be, try to invite a group of them to all do something fun together and just forget about all the stuff going on that day! if that doesnt work tell me! tell me how it works out :) hope your friendships get better!
xo-Marisa
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theres a group of kids at r school and they allways think that people r mad..is that normal?
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well if the people are acting like they're mad then ya, but if they think your mad for no reason then no..ask them why they always think that, i know people like that. they'll ask me if im mad at them out of no where and ill be like..uh what the heck? but ya...just ask them why they always think people are mad...and if they say i dont know..next time they think your mad be like....do i have a reason to be mad at you? haha that'll get them! good luck
xo-Marisa
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ahh! do u think a friend is really a friend if she says something rude behind your back?! okay, cause i have some friends and well i keep hearing all sorts of differnt things from everyone(and they are usualy mean) i dont no what i am doing to make them say thee things. and i dont no if the people are really saying these things and someone is just making it all up! i cant stand it! (link)
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no a friend isnt a friend if they talk behind your back, thats messed up! but dont start blaming things on them if you dont know if its true, because wouldnt you feel really bad if you went all off on them and you found out that they really didnt say anything? i mean if you're hearing it from tons of people its most likely true that they're saying things about you but it could also be a rumor...someone could've said that they said something and then it went from person to person then it came to you..just confront them nicely and ask them if what youve been hearing is true..and if they deny it...trust them, if you start hearing it again maybe you should question your friendship...and if its true just act like you dont care! thats what people hate the most when they're saying things about you, they're just trying to hurt you...but if you act like you dont care they'll get bored and just stop, hope it helped
xo-Marisa
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why do people allways get mad? (link)
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well if someone keeps getting mad they must have a reason for it.try and talk it out with them and ask them why they keep getting mad and whats been bothering them, try and help them out and make them feel better. maybe you guys can solve it all and they'll stop getting mad, hope everything works out
xo-Marisa
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okay so theres a group of girls at our school right..well yeah...we allways fight because people leave eachother out all the time..they never invite everone 2gethere only a few at a time.it makes other people feel like they arent good enough or something..
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truthfully, i think a few girls at a time is a better idea most of the time... because big groups of girls can cause big problems. once in a while its a good idea, but the other people who arent hanging out with those other girls should hang out together instead or thinking they're not good enough! because thats definately not true! some girls just get along better more easily! tell the group of girls what you think about it..but be nice about it and try to solve the problem between those group of girls! maybe they have a reason for it! good luck :)
xo-Marisa
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well, i have some friends...and its a big group of us at school. but everyone always fights with eachother and just puts eachother down..and no one likes it i dont think. I absolutly hate it! it makes no sence and i just wish all of us would all be friends again and stop with the drama..we dont have to be best friends but just friends..and i dont know what to do.thanks for helping though. (link)
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well maybe you should have a talk with all of them about it and tell them you dont think thats right that they talk bad about eachother all the time and that they should try to get along! and if they dont then maybe its time to find a new group of friends! i mean keep your best friends in that group, but if you dont want to be around those kind of people maybe you should start hanging out with a different crowd, hopefully they'll understand what you mean when you talk to them about it..the same things happening with me..but you gotta realize that a lot of teenage girls are mean and backstabbers..lol not all of them but a lot of them sadly are..good luck! ;)
xo-Marisa
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Okay well...theres this girl in school her name is marisa and she is my BFF should i be her friend??i mean shes super cool!!! i love her shes awesome!!PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICEEE!!! (link)
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if shes your bff then obviously shes already your friend , hope that helped?
xo-Marisa
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