A lot of my friends smoke. This means that whenever I hang around with them they are smoking and they often offer me cigarettes. I have always said no because I have my priciples but recently I have been smoking with them. I found that it was quite relaxing and I liked it. I really don't want to do it anymore but I enjoy it and as my friends do it, it's tempting. How do I stop before I get too addicted?
let me tell you, it will be easier to stop i fyou stop right now, tehn when you get addicted in a couple months. stop now and if theyre real friends they wont pressure you.
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im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing
thank you
heres my two cents - i had a friend EXACTLY like this, i had known her since i was 7 years old, and im now 16. she used to pick fights like that all the time up until last year. i SNAPPED. we didnt talk for a good 8 months-ish. it was that bad. she lives next door to me so it was even worse. then we started talking a olittle bit. the standard "how are things?" "oh cool" and like little stuff, we're okay now. shes grown, ive grown - we hang out and stuff, ill tell you we arent as clsoe as we used to be, but i think our friendship s alot better now. talk to her - stand up for yourself. this girl needs to quit being a bitch and realize that friends like you arent a dime a dozen.
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alright well i got into a fight with my best of best friends last night and he was yelling at me for something i didnt do, and he said some stuff about me to my friend that was really sweet and she thinks he likes me and i dont.. he was like, "i appologized [i didnt see him appologize cuz it was in a chat and i wasnt looking] and she didnt even say anything i guess im the one who cares and she doesnt" and then he was like, "i know i guess we treat each other bad sometimes but your not with us every second we dont treat eachother that bad" and then i was talking to him and it was when i was super mad and i was like, im starting to think you never liked me in the first place" and hes like, "yeah thats right _ _ _ _ _ _ _ i hate you and i always have? if i hated you why would i spend almost all my time either with you or talking to you online or on the phone?" so then he started talking to my friend and he started talking to me again and he was like, "i appologized" and i was like, "no you didnt" and he was like, "yes i did, in the chat why dont you start listening" and i was like, "im sorry but i wasnt listening in the chat" and he was like, "w/e" and i wa slike, "tell me now, im listening" and he was like, "i said 'im sorry', i said [my name], im sorry. and you just left." and i was like, "if i would have known that i wouldnt be pissed right now would i" and he was like, "im sorry(again)" and i was like, "im sorry too" and he was like, GOOOD were okay now.
well my friend thinks he likes me.. what do you think?
i think he might have a thing for you - if you have a thing for im too, then start analyzing his movements towards you - when he doesnt think youre looking, look at his facial expressions towards you. does he lean over to pick fuzz off of you or something? thats usually a sign. does he secretly smell your hair when you guys get close/ little stuff like that could be big. also - does he tease you? if he teases you in a fun way - thats it . he likes you. also - start noticing if you talk about other guys - is he indifferent, or he is more like "oh... yeah.. great" you know what i mean? hope this helped.
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alriight well i have this best friend, hes a guy, im a girl. we've been best friend for a pretty long time. i guess you could say were not your ordinary guy and girl friendship. we sit with each other at lunch, we call each other alot, we hang out every other weekend or so, we tell each other everything, etc. Well, yeah you know how i said i sit with him at lunch. well we whisper, like mostly whenever we talk we whisper, just because, we dont know why. well anyway i sit next to him and were always whispering and stuff. and the one day i was tired and i was resting my head and he put his arms around me and started shaking me.. then the one day they tried to stick pizza in my face and they know i dont like eating lunch, so i tried to like get up from the table but his shoulder was in the way so i ended up throwing myself over his shoulder and i just laid there and then i got off.. and then he was like, im not feelin to good and i was like.. ew throw up that way and hes like, ill be fine let me use your arm as a pillow, and he layed on my arm but then he got up like 10 seconds later.. alriight so i guess my question is, are we really flirting? my friend keeps saying that we would be really sweet together and even my teacher think were going out.. because this one time my math and science teacher were talking and he was whispering to me and he said something weird so i straightened up and looked at him with a suprised face and slapped him lightly on the shoulder and he started laughing and pulled me back down so he could finish and i looked over at my teachers and my science teacher looked at us all weird and my math teacher said something to her and she was like, "aw".. it was really weird.. well anyway are we really flirting?
yeah, um i know exactly how this is and its so cute and fun. youre def. flirting. ALOT. you need to sit down and think about if you like him or not. chances are you will fall for him sooner or later. i gurantee it. ive been in this situation before. so be ready.
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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently?
okay - well, unless this guy is coming on to you, or anything of the sort. i would wait to see what happens. highschool relationships are a joke. you like a guy and the next day you dont. so if this keeps going on, sit her down and explain the situation, but tell her that you do NOT like him. then you hsould probably not talk to him as much just so he can get over you. but i wouldnt worry too much in the beginning. hope htis helps/
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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?
at first it may be difficult, but wehn youre in class im sure you will have to be partnered up and such. just be genuwine with all of them. maybe after you get talking to some people invite them to the mall. invite them to work on homework together if you understand something that someone else doesnt. just show them youre amazing. alot of people are very judgmental, so you have to show and prove them wrong. good luck hun.
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