My name is Brianna Handy ... i was born in Collierville, Tennessee but now i live in Gainesville, Florida.. i love hanging out with friends, going to the movies, tanning, softball, parties, and just having fun... anyways, i just started this advice column because i love giving advice.. but i just want people to take it seriously.. so ask me anything..
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Member Since: November 13, 2005
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hey well i was going out with this boy...but he cheated on me so i broke up w/ him... but he just wont get over me.. and i started dating another boy.. and now he is all mad at me... but like i really did like him untill he cheated on me. but i really like the boy im going w/ now. so like what should i do?? (link)
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well, i think you did the right thing by breaking up with and moving on, now that you have a new guy.. your old guy is jealous because now its not just him that could move on to someone else. It's a typical situation for a guy to do something wrong and you guys break up, and then him want you back. As far as i know, now that you like the new guy i think you should stick with him. the other guy doesnt deserve you anyways
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Here is my problem...and i hope this doesn't sound too immature but, my best friend is friends with this girl who always is ditching her for other people. then my best friend comes and complains to me that she is annoyed... but she just keeps following and doing whatever this other girl asks her too. what my best friend doesn't realize is that she is doing to me what this girl is doing to her. ditching me for someone else. it is so frustrating because i have tried talking to her about this but she always gets angry. what should i do to make her see clearly what is going on? (link)
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hmm... this is a hard one.. well lets see, if you've already tried talking to her about this, then there isnt many other things you can do. How have you been trying to talk to her? you have to make sure your going about it the right way, otherwise she will just get angry like you said. You have to talk to her in a certain way.. and really tell her how you feel about it... otherwise, you need to surround yourself with other people. im sure theres plenty of friends you can hang out with.. dont just depend on one person to always be there for you to hang out, because eventually that person will leave and then who will you have? Obviously, if this friend is ditching you, then she's not the best person to be hanging around. try talking to her some more, and in the mean time, make some new friends ... only two things can happen if you do so .. she will either realize what shes doing is wrong, or you will move on and make REAL friends. i hope i helped.. keep asking questions!
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Okkk.. I found your xanga in a laguna blog.
Here's my deal :
You see, I used to have this friend right? More like my sister.She was Over everyweek day , weekend we didn't even call to come over, just came. We have been the best of friends for THE longest time! But now, she doesn't talk to me, becuase this other girl at our school is more to her likeings. All I hear now is that she's talking about me and blah blah blah blah blah...it's annoying actully. But I miss my bestfriend. I don't know what I did or if I even said anything to upset her. I really want to talk to her about it... I mean all the times I doubted our "bestfriend" friendship , she'd get extremly mad at me and tell me not to doubt it because we're going to be best friends no matter what( but now she's doubting it). Only, that was about 4 months ago. Before things got this rough. Anyhow, I know that the talk I want to have with her will change her mind about not even talking. I mean , I 'm not going to force this friendship, that'd make things worse. But would it hurt for her to tell me what's going on? What do you think about this ? I mean, the past month everythings been catching up to me, not just the missing bestfriend, but the ex boyfriend, and the house hold troubles... still though, I just need advise.
- confused ...help ? (link)
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k so im guessing this is brit ... but im not sure.. so heres what im gonna do, give you advice as if you were brit, and as if you werent
so heres the advice if this is brittani:
i know you feel about rachel. and i hate to be the one that has to answer this, but im glad you asked me a question on my advice column.. anyways you just need to let it go, things change, and there may not even be a reason why she stopped being friends with you. sometimes some ppl just wake up and literally just not that they dont like you anymore, they just dont care for you. it hurts, i know.. trust me.. but rachels just changed. i know you miss yall being best friends, and this is hard for me to talk about because shes my best friend now.. but things just changed.. she must've learned things about you, herself, and about yalls friendship. its her to decision, and i know you dont wannt push it... and you shouldnt. if she wanted to be your friend, she would come to you. trust me. you both have other people now you know.. dont dread on the past.. i've been through many best friends.. thats why ur supposed to have as much fun as you can and live for the day.. b/c eventually everyone will break up and go different ways ..
now if this isnt brit... then heres what you need to do... try and talk to your ex bff... im sure i dont know all of the details, but nothing worse can happen if you try to talk to her about it, since she already stopped being your friend, its not like that can happen b/c it already has. if talking to her doesnt work then try and surround yourself by other people you enjoy hanging out with. just like the quote "dont make ONE person important, cause then when they person leaves, who will you turn to?" .... im sure you have other friends, just try and get closer to them instead of spending your days in sorrow because of the loss of one person. thats what life is all about. you cant expect to be with the same people your whole life..
i hope i helped.. and thanks for visiting me advice column.. come back!*
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