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I mostly prefer to answer questions about relationships whether they are the romantic sort or about friendships, however I also know a lot about books, music and sports. Do not ask me questions about cars or computers as I will most likely refer you to someone else's column. Other than that I love to answer questions and help people. Please rate fairly and honestly. :] Good luck to all you puzzled people out there.
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I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =)
Haha. I am ALWAYS in this situation and I've found that if the friendship really is strong enough, no matter whether he likes you or not and then you break up or never get together, you remain friends. Anyways, the way that worked the best for me was that I just kind of told him the honest truth. I basically said in every boy girl friendship there comes a time where you have to discuss if you feel anything stronger and if there iss potential for your friendship to go further. If he says he doesn't agree with you then just say that you're disappointed but being friends is the first and foremost important. That will show him there's no pressure on him and take the awkwardness away. Hope I helped! Good luck! Friendships that blossom in relationships are always the ones that I remember the most. :] x
Me and audi have been friends for like what? a year? we got reallly close during that year but shes not my bestfriend, shes just one of my close friends. but One night i made a mistake with her boyfriend [Ex at the time] I got drunk with him then had sex with him! i felt soo giulty i had to tell her, So like 2 weeks later i decided to tell her, Then she told me that she had sex with my Ex! [Paulo] i Was soooo mad but i couldnt say anything. so we just said we both fucked up so whatever. So we forgave eachother. but she would always bring up me and D, and she told people about me and D and everybody looked at me like i was the fucked up one and shit, she was leaving out her and paulo! So i eventually got pissed, and i said i was done!
So we didnt talk for like 2 months. then out of no where we started talking and he kicked it again. then like a week later i was talking to this guy angel and he told me that audi had sex with paulo 2 days ago, and i remember she told me she got drunk with all these people. so i confronted her and she said no! So i said i was done!
But when i got realllly drunk i just went to her house, and we went to go see Gio and stuff, then Little started talking about how Audi had sex with Tres and Jokes that night as in Paulo. i ignored it cause i didnt wanna fight.
But like Saturday Me and audi were talking to some girl and she was reminding audi about what happened that night at her house when she was drunk, and she was like yeah and you had sex with Gio in the bathroom. i was like Whaaaaaaat? and audi was like i don't remember that! And i asked Gio and he just said wtf Littles girl? i was like yeaaaahhhh! And he didnt answer me!
I don't know what to do or believeee !
Well all my friends are mostly guys because of situations like the one you're in. I know from experience that if a guy changes the subject or didn't answer than he probably doesn't want to tell you the answer which in your case means yes. She's not one of you best friends and she's hooked up with this Paulo guy multiple times it seems. Yo have to look at the pros and cons and decide if its worth being her friend if you're going to be angry and suspicious all the time. If you can't trust her you don't really have a friend ship. If you look at the facts basically everyone says she hooked up with Gio except her. I would move on from her and stick with real friends. Keep her around to do simple, fun things with her but jut don't share your secrets ands tuff. She doesn't have to be a super good friend. Hope I helped. Good luck! x