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Q: Im 16 years old, almost 17. I've never had a boyfriend, i've never kissed a guy, i've never been drunk, i've never done drugs, and I don't go to parties. At my age that's all my friends want to do. They get drunk/high, they go to parties, and they hook up with guys. I feel like such a loser because I have no intentions of doing any of that stuff anytime soon. I feel like I don't have anything to talk about with my friends because that's all they talk about. Like everytime i've gone to little get togethers with them everyones smoking weed or drinking, and I just stand there awkwardly. There's been times where I want to try it, but theres just something in my head that tells me not too. What would you think of someone like me? should I continue to be the way I am? are there any other teens out there like me? should I just let go and open up to new things? What does being high/drunk feel like?
do people at parties who do get messed up all the time think badly about the ones who don't? HELP!
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WHOA!!! WHOA!!! who cares what we think nor what anybody else does? You are not afraid to be yourself and hell you basically just overcame an obstacle most teens struggle with peer pressure, and asserting your identity. i mean you are willing to say "hey i don't do all that stuff" most people would be like "my friends are doing it so SO WILL I". and if you really must know what i think. i think it's cool. Be you. that's what attracts people. and there are teens like you, yes. and alot of the people who do that stuff do think bad mostly because they think you judge them or your prudy but no fucks should be given about that. and being high or drunk is different for everyone. for some it's amazing. for others it's the only way they survive life.
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Q: I am 17, female. My best friend is 17 and male. I have known him for nine years, we met in third grade. We were each other's pretty much best friend. I can go to him with anything, I have no problem telling him what I feel I can't say to other's because he will never judge me. He tells me a lot of his problems, too. When I text him upset, he can tell and he asks immediately what is wrong, and vice versa. He struggles with very low confidence because he has a brother who, in his eyes, is perfect and he can't measure up. So, I have to pretty much tell him everyday how great he really is or else he would get upset. He sings and plays guitar, he knows I love his singing voice, so when I ask, he sings for me. We are going to Europe for a music trip in three weeks together and my science teacher is being the biggest douschebag, while my friend is in AP Physics and I am in Chemistry, I had asked him if he could help me get ahead in Chem so I wouldn't be behind when we get back, he said he can try and we stayed after for 2 hours going over Chemistry work, after everything was finished he asked if I understood and I replied that I was so, so. He went over more things with me to help me better understand and he promised we won't leave until I am pro at Chemistry, even though his dad was home from the UK after being away for 2 weeks, he still stayed with me and drove me home after. My friends all say he loves me, his friends say I love him. I think we are both just great friends. A random person came up to me in the hallway after my friend put a cat sticker on my locker and gave me my favorite flavor jolly rancher and said "God, just date already, oh wait, everybody knows you two love each other except you two." Again, we think we are great friends. I reinforced that idea to everybody today when about 12 people felt the need to tell me he was with another girl at a music festival. When I asked my friend about it, jokingly, he didn't give me a straight forward answer which gave everybody reason to again, believe that he is "trying to make me jealous" or he realized he "cant be with me so he's 'settling'"
From an outsider, what do you think? Are we just friends? Thanks! Sorry if it's unorganized and the ideas are everywhere, I just typed what I thought. Thanks again!
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so you don't have feelings toward him i am assuming? well... the problem with this equation is everyone assumes that when girls and guys are friends they aren't... "friends" even no matter how much you protest it. But when people say that don't let it bother you that can actually distance your friendship... but also from what it seems he might like you... i'm not going to lie. avoiding talking about hanging out with another girl is a sign of that but then again he could have avoided it because he might think YOU like him... just sit down and talk about it.
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Q: What is a good song for really close friendship?
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right here by miley cyrus i hate her but love the song.
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Q: I am 16 years old and im a girl.im a really depressed person and i dont know where to turn.i have no one to talk to.i dont really have any friends.and i dont have any one to talk to in my family either.i have decided to turn to talk to strangers.Can anyone tell me a specific site to go on to be able to really talk to someone and vent all my feelings?and maybe if one of you guys would like to talk to me?
Thanks.i would really appreciate any useful advice.
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Q: im friends with a girl a couple months older than me. she is over obsessed with me. buys me anything i mention i like, even if i tell her no several times. she offers to drive me anyway and tries to get involved in my relationships. even flirts with my bfs... shes tried to turn me and twin sis against each other and backstabs me but puts me on a throne too. idk how to confront her. she is very fragile. also im in another country atm...return in 18 days. shes nice, but i dont want friends i cant trust.help?
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Whoa, whoa. This girl is not your friend. Sounds like she might have a secret envy towards you in a way or a gay crush LOL. Nah i'm just joking even though those two things are possible. But you need to confront her, and i am serious she is not your friend and if you don't do something now expect her backstabbing to get way WORSE.
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Q: Hey, this question is something that I get a lot and used to get quite frequently because my best friend is a guy. I just want to know what your feelings are on guy/girl friendships. Do you think they can just be friends forever? Will they eventually fall for one another? Will sexual tension get the best of them? I've heard them all, my friend and I have been best friends since third grade and are now seniors in high school and everyone, even outside our circle of friends thinks that some day, some how, we are gonna date because guy/girl friendships are impossible. I disagree, as does he. What do you think?
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OH MY GAWD!!!! I get asked this all the time. Yes, they can. I mean sure there is a strong chance of mutual feelings or some sort of crush going on. But yes, guys and girls can be just friends. I am a girl and i PREFER guy friends over girls and guys love me as a friend because i'm kind of like a guy in alot of ways. So it really all depends on the guy and girl involved.
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Q: I have a Friend who introduce me to his Girlfriend and suddenly we bacame friends also but he started cheating on her and I told him the Right thing that he should do. Then he Got mad at. What should I do ?
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Hm... It's like this. Imagine if you didn't know the girl's boyfriend and you and the girl are friends... but you saw him one day cheating on her... would you tell her? Even if she didn't ask, would you pull her to the side and be like i saw your guy on another girl? Honestly, your friend shouldn't be mad, he is in the wrong for what he is doing.
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Hey Everyone I'm Diamond.
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Gender: Female Location: Jersey Occupation: Working College Student Age: 18 Member Since: February 26, 2012 Answers: 87 Last Update: March 15, 2012 Visitors: 3889
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