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i really like this guy and he goes to a differnet school and how can i have relationship with him if he goes to a differnet school. I know he likes me because he already told me and He lives in the same town tho but we never get a chance to see eachother because we go to differnet schools does that affecet our relationship? I need some adivce.
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it usually affects the relationship, but if you live in the same town then its not that bad. if you trust that he wont cheat on you then go for it. to help make up for the indifference in schools, if its possible hang out with him on weekends and talk on the phone as much as possible. and if you know any friends who go to his school, ask them to keep an eye on him, not a close eye, but just an eye on him :)
hope i helped x0x
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i have 2 groups of friends. group a always thinks im leaving them for group b... and vice versa. what do i do? (link)
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well you should let them know that you are one person and that they are going to have to share you or you could get group a and group b to become friends so you all could hang out together and there wouldn't be any hassle.
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hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!! (link)
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ok, well here's what i figure. he really, really liked you right, so you go and break his heart and everything so then he feels as if he can't trust you any more , so then he starts liking your sister because you guys are twins and he may figure you two are like the same people, but she doesnt like him. so now HE'S confused and doesnt know who to turn to anymore, because i guess he feels betrayed by you in a way.
i dont really know if there's anyway for you to fix it because you cant change a person's mind set, the only thing you can do is guide them. so you need to go talk to ryan about how you feel and how you think he feels. he may try to leave and go away but stop him and tell him that you thought you were his best friend and you can tell when somethings wrong. also tell him that the way he's acting is hurting you inside and etc. i think you can take it from there. :) hope that i helped you!
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okay... i have a bunch of friends but like NONE of them hang out together. i have two reallllllly good friends that kinda hang out w/each other but not as much. and i have 2 friends that me and them were like best friends in 6th grade and this year kinda seperated (in 7th) (i'm going into 8th) but we were still friends. and when i was hanging out w/other people the called me traitor and backstabber. I really want to be better friends w/them but i don't know i can please them b/c i have other friends too. i have another friend who is totally possesive and wont let me like hang w/other people she gets po ed if i don't talk to her ONE day! and thinks i've become racist or something. then i have some other friends and so like all together i have 4 or 5 different groups of friends and only 2 groups of them hang out together. and this year we have assigned lunch tables but i don't know which to sit with. my one friend doesn't mind, and my other i sat w/this year and the others i have no idea about! i have no idea who to hang w/like should i switch? one day w/some people next someone else?? please help will rate high!
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you sound like someone at my old school (hmm..) (LOL) but yea you shoult talk to each of them and let them know that you do have other friends and cannot please everyone all at once. so they shouldnt call you names and stuff b/c of something you cannot handle you know... let your friend who gets mad at you if you dont hang with her that day , let her know that you have other friends to please and you cannot spend your time devoted to just one person. you should make your frienda talk more so they'll all understand. you should definetly take turns spending time w/ each of your groups b/c that works even though they may still get mad at you but oh well, like i said you cant please everyone even though you dont want to loose your friends
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going to a high school almost all my friends hav done stuff that r not "prent approved" i lov my friends to death but will alot of people classify me as a "bad" person for hanging out with them??
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No you dont sound dumb. People are always going to be judged by their friends. Do you know the saying 'Birds of a feather flock together"? well it means that people who are alike and have similar qualities hang out together and do the same thing. so you're always going to get judged this way. As long as you do not do what they do and have a mind of your own, continue on to habg around with your friends because people are always going to judge you no matter what.
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