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Hey! My name is Molly and I live in CALIFORNIA. Though I have only been on this Earth for 15 years, I have experiecned a lot. Here's a little about me:
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My best friend has guys asking her to hook up all the time, right and left and sometimes i wonder if its because she has big boobs, i mean all they talk about is that she is pretty big, but i feel like being around her makes me realize how much guys dont notice me.

I mean i do have a pretty good amount of friends, but not a lot of guy friends. I really wish that guys would find me attractive, and want to hook up with me and actually have interest in me. But idk how to achieve that. I mean i get told everyday that i look really cute by a lot of girls and that i dress so cute and have like the best style. But i have a feeling it's because im not confident enough with myself and around guys. I'm sorta shy you could say. How can i change that?

Wow. I feel the exact same thing. I went to Hurricane Harbor (water park) with my good friend one year, and it was the same. Boys talking to her in her bathing suit, while im standing right there, trying to do something with myself, or trying to engage in the conversation, but that hardly works.

I dont have much advice because you and I are in the same situation.

But, I think that love comes when you are not looking, so to speak. And maybe stop thinking about who likes you and who doesn't, or does he like me or not.

Live your life as if you don't need boys to make you feel better about yourself. Be confident in yourself, and know that you only need you in your world. lol.

You can take strides to make boys to like you. Hang out with them! They will get to know who you are better.

As for the friend-with-boys thing. Really, you can't do much about that. Keep in mind that in the end, the girl with big boobs always gets gyped: has sex, left with a baby and no husband. (Not to put down your friend. lol)

In short, don't think about it. Boys will LOVE you in their own time. Just know it'll come.

Sorry about the lllooooonnnng answer. Hope I helped.

Molly

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my bestfriends parents are mean to her..they dont hit her but they call her names and stuff..she called me crying hard and i know she cant take it! and i need to know how to help her..any ideas??


5S FOR ANYTHING SINCE THIS IS URGENT!!

I think you are her main source for comfort. They may not be able to afford a counselor, and her parents may not want her to get one. You can help her alot. My best friend is like my therapist. So you can be hers. Try and call her every day and talk about her day and yours. Try and hang out with her, and do stuff together with a bunch of friends, you know, occupy her mind and get her to try and not to worry about it. And, if possible, tell her she should talk to her 'rents about how they hurt her. Well, thats all that I can think of, but if things get worse, talk to the athorities or your parents will know what to do. Hope I helped. ^^Molly^^

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My friend is always complaining about her figure and looks and it annoys me because she is one of those girls who have perfect looks skin and figure. I am overweight, not the best looking girl with bad skin and am seriosuly over my age height. I want to make her feel good about herself but she never does and everytime she starts it makes me feel bad about myself. I want her to feel better but when I reassure her she doesnt believe me. I know its wrong but I am scared I will end up like her. I used to like myself but now I have started feeling really depressed about it. Any advice on shutting her up and getting myself back how I was before? I hate the NEW me

Well, you may not like this, but if a friend is making you feel this way you shouldnt have to be her friend. She has negetive energy, and you dont deserve to be around that. You need a healthy and happy atmosphere. And, you have tried to make her feel better, but theres just no possible way to do that. She is what she is and you dont have to be around it if you dont want to. She is probably stuck up anyway... hope that helps.

~TurrrrrrtleMolly

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