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My guy friend is mad at me. I called him a couple days ago to apologize and he didn't listen to me...I didn't even do anything!! I just said something after he pissed me off! But I've known him sooo long and I don't wanna ruin our friendship over something as stupid as this! Should I apologize again??? Help! (link)
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Just like the other 2 said wait it out. No point in apologizing if you're gonna get the cold shoulder. If he still wants to be friends with you then he'll start to worry what up with you. Just let him cool off for awhile. If after a week or two he doesn't come to you, go to him. I know it may sound pathetic, but if you keep your dignity you won't look like a dog coming back with it's tale between it's legs.
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Sorry for the bad dog analogy, its been a long day -_-
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Ok, My best friend Ethan and I have been best friends since we met this year, and I would do anything for him. Well, hes going out with this girl, Skylar. I dont mean to name names, but shes a total prep, and she HATES ME. And I'm not very fond of her either. Ever since they have been going out, Ethan is all different. I used to be able to tell him anything, but whenever I say something bad about Skylar on accident, he gets all mad, and I feel like I cant trust him anymore. I want to tell him so badly that Skylar is being a jerk to me and my friends, but he wont listen to me, i'm positive he wont. I feel like I'm not part of his life anymore, I just feel like I'm in the background, and Skylar is always getting her way with everything. I mean, do you ever get that feeling where you know that hes waking up thinking about the totally wrong girl, yet you hope that he finds happiness in his life, even if it means kicking you out of it? well thats how I feel. So here are my questions...
1) How do I tell him how I really feel about him and Skylar without him getting mad?
2) How do I get a more positive attitude out of this?
PLEASE HELP. I rate 5's. And I appreciate all those columnists that take the time to read this real long question =)...
--SKY IS THE LIMIT. (link)
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I can understand how you feel. That happened with one of my guy friends. The girl he was going out with was a total witch, but with a "b". You should write him a letter and slip it some where he will find. If that doesn't work, give the letter to one of your mutual friends and hope your message gets through. Now to get a more positive attitude out of this...
...Just lay off a while, when you see him give him a casual "Hello" and walk away. Not that you should completely ignore him, you should just wait for him to come around on his own. No one can force another person to do anything against their will. If you really get frustrated sitting around doing nothing, then write down how you feel in a journal or on a sheet of paper, its a really good stress relief.
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i had this best friend named ryley when i was about 5 years old years old!! we lived next door to me and we did EVERYTHING together!but then when i was 8 he moved and i never saw him again and now i am really starting to miss him. My boyfriend goes to his church and a few weeks ago he said his best friend ryley from church asked if he knew me!he said yes and ryley told him we used to be best friends!now i really want to call him since i know now that he remembers me! but i dont know what i would say!i sure did change alot from when i was 8 til now im 14.i dont even know if he cares or wants to talk to me..what should i do? (link)
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If you really and truly want to reaquaint yourself with Ryley, then I say call him. I'm not saying go and do everthing at once, you should take things slow. Tell him that you want to talk sometime so that you two can mend the rift that 4 years has torn apart. You haven't seen each other for a long time, treat him as you would a person you know, but not very well. After all, 4 years is a long time to change and you don't know him as well as you used to.
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Hey my friend and I have been friends for a long time. We promised to be best friends forever. Lately though, I feel as if we've grown apart. Just recently we have been going to different middle schools and we won't be meeting up until high school. We haven't been talking to each other much lately, even though we're out for summer break. How can I help improve our relationship? (link)
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Well, I think you should try to make plans with your friend. Have them spend the night at your place. But realize that only one day with your friend will not mend the crack in your friendship. You must work with your friend to ever be able to fill that void. And never forget; persistance is the key.
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