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i have no friends everywhere, i feel sad :(
i love to make friends but it does not work
i'm approachable to everyone, but why it's hard?
still no friends, i just need someone to talk to and hang out with. (link)
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When it comes to making friends, You must keep in mind that its not just having someone to talk to. Its also being there for them. So in making friends, Remember to mention hanging out and stuff. If you can manage to give the people you meet a chance to get to know you then becoming friends shouldn't be that difficult. Try and find the right people to be friends with. Make sure you trust them and that they can understand you. If there is any part of this that you do not understand, feel free to message me.
Hope i have contributed to your solution.
- Manny
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Hello,
I very rarely contribute to this site, although find it to be very beneficial and I'm glad it's around. I've had some questions answered through other posters, so I often lurk, I just very rarely contribute.
That being said, I'm seeking some advice.. I'm good friends this this girl from a town nearby. She attends public school, while I'm homeschooled. This limits us from seeing one another very often, although we talk very often online and fairly often on the telephone. Currently, we're not seeing each other in person, but every few months. This will change if this relationship ever develops into something more.
The girl is currently dating a guy and their relationship appears to be fairly decent. I've gotten some vibes from her that seem to imply she has an interest in me. She tells me she loves me (which is something I am hesitant in saying in return, as the young age of 15, I feel love is a hard thing to understand) and she's also sent me some photos of herself that her boyfriend would probably not appreciate. Now why that generally would indicate she's a wee bit on the skanky side, that's not the case, she's just a girl that trusts me, as we've been real close friends for a long time.
That said, I really want to see our relationship move on, but is it worth it? I suppose my real question is, what to do? Part of me wants to pursue this further, since she's implied she likes me, but another part of me makes me hesitant, as if she is in a relationship now and liking another guy, I could very well end up being cheated one if I were to pursue this.
I'm a real selective guy (I know that sounds contradictory, a hormonal teenager being selective), but I have standards and she is really a wonderful girl. I just think she's maybe a little confused, I certainly don't want to think that she is interested in me and wants to have me around on the side, along with her boyfriend.
Thanks in Advance,
Chase, 15/M (link)
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Ok so from what i understand. You want to work this out as discrete and non-violent as possible right? Well two things to consider: 1. You can pursue this opportunity to be with her or 2. You can just stay friends. Personally i'd stay friends with her. Even though she may trust you the fact that she's a bit on the "skanky" side may suggest that over time that part of her may act up. But trust me. Its better to keep a friendship with someone than it is to lose that friendship over love. Love is a widely misinterpreted concept. However, if you want to get with her then you need to make sure it will work out. I'm saying to think of every possible thing that can happen based on how both of you are with each other. If you get a good feel out of it then i'd say go for it.
Thats about all i can advise. Be careful and good luck.
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so im a 16m. First to start off this is regarding a girl. So weve been just talking during a class and we seem to get along she hanged out with me a couple of times. Then one of those times she asked me for my number but for whatever reason i was in a bad mood and kind of said something like i dont have a number. So just the other day we were talking and we just had a conversation and she mentioned something and then hessitated to tell me then she said something about some kid she liked in the class. So i was kind of just thinking to my self wtf. So i was thinking should i like ask her to do something this weekend or go to this party im going to or something or should i just kind of let it go and just be friends kind of thing. I dont really know i feal as if ive had alot of missed opportunities because im a really moodie person and just sometimes everibody seems to annoy me why? I dont know. Please tell me what i should and or shouldnt do. (link)
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Dude, speak your heart out. If your cool with this girl then tell her how you feel. and be respectful in how you do it. And definitely give her your number if you really liker her. Just be careful of what you say, be nice about how you feel about her, and be honest and it will work out.
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Hey ,I went out with a guy and it turned out that my best friend loves him !
When we broke up .. i was sad so he asked to date him again but I said no bcz i didn't want to lose my best friend !
But that wasn't what she would do .. she told him she loves him and they're getting closer !
I asked my mom for advice she told me I should forget that boy , I don't trust he words , why should I be the one who gives up ?! (link)
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You are not giving up. Nor should you. Look, I can understand why you may feel down about it. But look at the world you have around you. There are plenty of relationship opportunities out there. You just need to be patient and observant. As for dealing with the guy, You should try to forget about it and think of other things that may make you happy until you find someone else. Hope this helps.
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