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i have this friend. shes a really good friend of mine. we got on really well. but about a year ago she started to show her true colours. everything i said i liked she said she hated, but then about 2 wks later she would say she liked it having forgotten she said she hated it. ive found she started to copy me aswell. she started to take my friends away. she can be really nice....but she has mood swings. she likes to critisise a lot. she can become very bitchy when she doesnt get her own way. she likes to take control and tells me she hates it when others take control. she seems to contradict everything.
i think that our friendship is deteriorating. i dont want it to. what do i do? i dont want to hurt her feelings? shall i say anything? i feel trapped. (link)
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I think you need to tell her how you feel. She needs to understand. If you really want to save your friendship then thats what you should do.
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I know this guy, he tries to fit in but he really annoys everyone, generally behaving like himself,
ok..so he's rude, obsessive, irritating, nosey, clingy and just doesnt get the picture.
The thing is he used to have a little thing for me, and so now when my friends take the mickey out of him i tell them to stop it because i feel its not nice, also because he doesnt really have any proper friends.
i kept feeling bad until this afternoon, when i found out that he didnt only like me, he semmed to have asked out many more people in that time....... especially guys! I found it a bit worrying as i think he's only bi because he's so very desperate, and this is not an exaggeration.
This has just freaked a whole lot more people out now because of him. Many of our friends are bi but i just find it really weird for him to be like this. How do i go about this, and what would you do? (link)
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Stay away! I know that seems VERY bad BUT if you dont want him to irritate you then thats my best advice. The more you are with him the more annoying (etc.) hes gonna get therefore the more you are gonna end up hating him. This isn't good! Generating hate is bad! Its gonna end up reflecting on your personality. And seeing as he's quite (I mean very) weird, irritating, clingy you should just tell him. Otherwise hes gonna end up very lonely. This is also bad. If he doesnt get it then just keep telling him again and again BUT very seriously. It's better just to tell the truth. You have to make sure that he's aware of other peoples feelings and not just of his own. He has to see what hes doing. Hes driving everyone away.
I suggest you just talk to him!
And about the sexuality thing......he's either confused or just trying to fit in!
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