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Hey Hey! i am an average 14 year old girl. I decided to write a column because i just rellized everyone asked me for advice. They all said i gave good advice too. So ask your question and i will try to answer them within a day or 2.

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i used to hang out wit a bunch of my friends. now one of those friends has told the other friends privatly how she misses hanging out with eachother, only she didnt mention my name. now i didnt hang out wit my bestfriend to see what would happen. now none of them are my friends anymore. what should i do?

I was just in that situation. im in girl scouts and we have little clicks. There was me and 4 other girls and we call ourselves the fab four and mascot (since one just joined the little click) and i got mad at Kelsey and then she told Ashlee and Ashlee told Katie and Katie told Tarynn but i told them all why i was mad at Kelsey and they all helped us figure out the problem. So you might just need to confront them and tell them how you feel. thats what i did when they all left me out and everything worked out fine.

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well last year (6th grade) i was asked out by one of my best guy friends and i said yes, but then the next day i told him that is was just to weird and i wanted to go back to being a bff, so that whole rest of the year i have not talk to him and the whole time of this year i have not been talking to him, i mean sometimes we talk on AIM, but its just so weird, and im not sure that i really want to be his friend again, one of my other guy friends told me that he still liked me... so i was really confused. so in all of my class that are with him, i get soooo shy, and i have not raised my hand once in that class and im not as social, i am always just soo hyper and entergetic and crazy around everyone else! i dont want to talk to him, but is there any advice on how to just be more in to the game, because i am getting really bad grades in that class because im to shy to raise my hand to ask about something that i dont get!so i need serious help and advice!

like everyone else is saying.....dont worry about it. he will get over you sooner or later. Just be yourself, Try your hardest in school, and dont be afraid to raise your hand if you dont understand something and if your to shy to raise your hand then maybe talk to the teacher after class if you dont understand. i was just in the same situation as you because i didn't want to embaress myself infront of my crush. So just be yourself!

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