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can somebody define fake (regarding people)..because i called my friend fake today, and she said "Im not fake, how about you define fake then." and it was there, but i couldn't do it. can somebody define it and then tell me if this is a fake girl.

--My freind who told me to define fake, over the summer she made me basically hate one of my BESTBEST freinds from 8th grade, and then she told them i have been talking about them which started a huge fight. Then she became freinds with the girl who she and I were both talking about, and are now best freinds. Also over the summer, she told me everything (which now she hasnt) and she said how much she hates these certain girls who she was friends with in 8th grade. Anyways, now she became freinds with them since 9th grade starts and is now freinds with them and the hole group that she said she hates..and is denying she said it. Also, to add onto this, she used to say over the summer how people who d drugs and get drunk all the time and party alot disgust her, but now, shes one of those people. latley ive noticed shes changed and basically is fake (as i see it) and does everything she says she hates and loves everyone she says she doesnt...we dont talk anymore either...and she has the nerve to read my blog about her on myspace (we was on my prefered list and i forgot she was) and had the nerve to yell at me of how she changed and how shes now fake..


i dont know what i should do.

You were right , she is fake. Tell her how you feel and tell her that first you tell her something but it becomes completly oppisite. Ask her why? She doesn't sound like someone I'd be hanging out with. And to define fake , someone who poses to be someone else and your right , your friend is a fake and she knows that and tell her to quit the act because in life , she is getting to NOWHERE!

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ive been friends with this girl for like 3 years..shes really bossy to me and all my friends. like if we say something she doesnt agree with shell say something like are you friggen retarded? or your so stupid. but she says these things like constantly. and alot of the times when we say something shell like slap our arms or something and shes a big girl and were all pretty small and it hurts and if we tell her to stop it hurts she just say oo boo hoo. she told me once i treat her like shit because i leave her out of the crowd and i wanted to say mabye if you were nicer i wouldnt but i knew if i said that she would get mad. how do i deal with something like this. me and my friends are tired of this.

I understand your feelings and If I were you I would try to talk to her about it , tell her and if she was a true friend then she would understand. If she doesn't then you know who your REAL friends are and she isn't. Remember, a real friend wouldn't hurt you seriously , and even if she thinks it is a joke she wouldn't do that.

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