My name is Susan, and I am a teen adviser that would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.
I'm going to be a sophomore in high school!
I've been through quite a bit in my life: My mom had cancer when I was little, so they gave her a pace-maker to fix it. (over the next 6-7 years the radiation ruined her heart valves!) Then, my dad left us when I was in 6th grade. And, my mom found out that she had to have a heart transplant, which she did a little over a year ago! She got re-married and is living a happy and healthy life now!
So, I know about a lot of things, especially family and boys! So, if you have any questions at all, please ask! My friends are always coming to me for advice! And, I love giving it! So, ask away!
Website: By Teens 4 Teens
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Gender: Female
Location: Emmetsburg, Iowa
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 16
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Member Since: July 21, 2007
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One of my best friends, Sandy isn’t allowed to have a boyfriend (at age 13). She has one, but can’t hang out with him around her parents. One of my other friends, Casey, lives across the street (and is friends) with Sandy’s boyfriend, Mike. Since she can’t see him at any other time, she is always spending time with mike at Casey’s house, and never with us. When she’s with us she either is hanging out with him, talking to him on one of our cell phones (her dad has a recorder on her cell), or talking about him. We don’t want her to do anything stupid, so we want to keep an eye on her, like the great friends we are. We don’t want to be around her when she’s like this, but we want to keep protecting her and being her friend. What should we do?
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Dear Losing a Great Friend To A Guy,
First off, I understand what you're going through, my friend did the same thing... She had a b/f that her parents didn't approve of and made them break-up, but they secretly stayed together, but in the end decided it was best to just be friends... In your situation however, I suggest you try to talk to you friend about what she is doing, and ask her if she thinks it's wrong or not.. She's sneaking behind her parent's backs and lying to them! She needs to realize what she is doing is wrong! Tell her that she needs to confront her parents about it, and tell them the truth! Because, if they find out another way, she could get into a lot of trouble! Just try to help her, guide her to the right choice! Try sitting down with her and tell her to ask her parents about maybe changing the rule. That she's only allowd to see him w/ friends around, go on double/group dates...! I hope I helped! Please let me know wat happens! Good luck! Best wishes!
Susan
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