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hii

well heres the story its pretty long.
last week was the last week of the holidays and i was chatting to my friend on the net and she just randomly says to f*#k off and that she hates me and never was really my friend. so i'm like really cofused and thinks she just going through some troubles at home so i leave it. later that week i try talking to her again and the same thing happens but this time she starts telling me that no one likes me and i'm annoying and to stay away from her and her friend who are also my friends. i got really up set and cried.Then school started and i styaed away from her as much as possible which is hard cause i'm in her roll call and i'm in the same group as her. Then all my friends started sitting down the back with her and stuff and some of my other friends told me that she was saying stuff about me and saying that i started it all and that she wanted to start a punch up with me and stuff. then last night her and another girl from my school started a convo with me and started like harassing me calling me a sped and just making fun og me basically. i think i'm going to tell my teacher whats going on. i saved the 2 convo's she had with me calling a hoe and stuff.I just don't know what to do about my friends like all my school friend from my group hate me. what should i do

p.s sooooo sorry for how long it is
xoxo thaks for the help

I had the same problem when I was in 9th grade. I had met this girl who was a "trouble maker" but made really good friends with her in 8th grade. Then the summer, I started hanging out with more people and she got jealous. She started to cuss at me and everything. Then when school started, she had this other friend (who used to be my friend) and they both would call me slut, whore, hoe and try to spit on me. I told my teachers and everything. But it never really stopped. I even went to the cops because I had enough. Nothing was done then either. Eventually she just gave up and ended up in rehab and thats how it ended. But for you I would say to actually go and tell someone. Maybe your school will actually listen to you and not blow you off like mine did. As for your other friends, Tell them that what they're doing upsets you and that they really have no reason to hate you since it's between you and that ONE girl. Not you and the entire group. You could also try telling them what really happened but more than likely they'll still believe her and it's a lot of unneeded drama. But if telling someone doesn't work, Just try to wait it out a while and when she's alone (in person like at school or something) approach her and ask her whats going on and why she doesn't like you out of nowhere. She used to be your friend so I don't think she'll blow you off in person. Well I hope everything works out for you! good luck!!

- Ellie

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