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me and my friend fight ALL the time.. i really wish she would shut up! she brags and annoys me a lot! then she thinks we are like best friends! i dont know what to do!! i dont want to tell her i hate her cause i dont know how she will react! but what if she feels the same way as I do! please dont tell me to just "talk it out" i need real advice that will work!!!! thanks (link)
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well... i would start avioding her untill she gets the picture. i know this is mean but its definetly not talking it out. Find new friends who really care about YOU. especially once she finds some friends of her own, you two wont have to worry about this constant struggle anymore.
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ok here goes......i think my friends b-day is coming up soon but im not sure. i dont wanna ask her when her b-day is coming up cuz im supposed 2 know!! it will make me feel bad if i have 2 ask her when her b-day is! and i dont know any1 that would know when it is!!!! what should i do???
confused as ever!!!! (link)
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hmmm... well you could go over to her house and while shes not lookin, try looking for some kind certificate or id that will tell you. Or, just turn up with a gift and if she says her birthday isnt until-fill in the blank- than tell her you know but you thought you might not be able to make it that day. If shes having a bithday party than it doesnt realy matter when her birthday is. Hope i helped!!! :) rate me pleez :)
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what should i do if everything i do my friend thinks its great and does the same thing and then hers ends up being better EVEN tho she got the stupid idea from ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (who alwayz has the better ideas) (link)
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well, you could tell her that you dont appreciate her copying you. But it always comes out sounding mean and anyway if she really likes your ideas then...shes probably not gonna stop taking them. Some things you could do are:
1. Dont give her any ideas, wait untill SHE has one and tell her its really good.(Maybe she just doesnt think any of her ideas are any good and this is the encouragement she needs)
2. even though this isnt as good as the first, think up one idea, let her copy it, then think up a better one( that you may have already thought of), and do that.
So, if you let her gradually strt doing the things that she thinks up, eventually she should think that her ideas are good enough to use from now on!!! :) HOPE I HELPED PLEEZ RATE ME!
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8th grade is cuming ^ soon for me n after 8th grade itz like good by to any friend i have and then when i go to high school im gunna have to start making friendz over again n itz worse then elementary to middle school cuz at least there i had a couple friendz. itz gunna b really hard for me. im trying to keep thinking about it now so on the last day of school it doesnt come like a surprise to me. i dont kno how im gunna handle it... does any1 kno anything i can do or if itz happend to them b4 ot tell me wut they did? plz help i dont need help right away but im really worried. (link)
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well i know this isnt the same, but in first grade i went fome a wealthy private school in pa to a public elementry school in delaware. i knew ABSOLUTELY NO ONE because my old friends stayed in private school.the very first girl i met in public school was very outgoing and i immediatly liked her( me being very shy) and she ended up being my best friend. i learned a lot from this, mostly that if you step up and introduce yourself to people, they like you a lot. if you hold back, you miss out on a lot of would-be friends. hope i helped!!! :)
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Okay Yesterday I went off on my friends because I thought they were going to say "you are copying us" because they do this and i wanted to so i said i have wanted to do this since i was in 4th grade and i am not copying you. so now they are mad at me and i really wish that they werent. they think i copy them and that I do not know how to deal with people and that i am stupid well at least right now that they are mad at me....I tried to apologize to them through e-mail but I think they are still mad at me...I want to apologize again in person but I know they will not talk to me...What Should I do? (link)
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well, i believe in the saying- imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. you wouldnt copy them if you didnt like whatever they had,and they know you truly like it and arent just pretending.if you arent too mad at them, then tell them that you just copy because you like their style. if they're still mad, maybe you shouldn't be so nice.
p.s. copying isnt a bad thing!
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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do? (link)
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if u invite all of them then no matter how hard you try they might start disagreeing. id say seperate your friends into 2 groups that will get along, and have 2 smaller parties. or 1 big 1 and 1 small 1. this way you can have a happy party w/ every1 - and TWICE THE FUN!
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