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I LOVE chihuahuas! Im Christian and a full believer! I like talkin basically anywhere. I live in Texas. I love goin to Six Flags! I live in a big house, i have 6 dogs! I love my life and someday ill go to College to become a Veterinarian! xOxO
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ok so theres this new hot guy at my school,and my friend,well call her beth,well beth was like oh my gosh,well call me ann, oh my gosh ann did you see that hot new guy?!? i was like yeah he always wears my favortie band shirts, his name is,well call him mark, mark,so anytime im around beth shes like o my gosh ann hes soo hot! today she told me she liked him,she hasnt spoken one word to him and yesterday he was wearing one of his awesome band shirts,and in our little group of friends no one knows how she feels about the music i like, but anyways she was like oh my gosh i want that shirt sooo bad!!(oh let me mention this is the girl that refuses to listen to my favorite bands because they scream and they look scary) so i looked at her and i said beth you dont even like that band..they scare you too much. she was like so!! how do i get her to stop acting like such a freakin' poser over a guy!??!?!?!? ill go crazy!!
well for starters you can say " You will never get him to like you, when you is not really you, because one day i promise you will forget what band you said you liked yesterday, be yourself."
Or say something like " If you guys date i cant wait to see your face at The Used concert." haha or something like to make her be HERSELF!
hope i helped
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My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want
Meli
well if she is fat try to get her motivated to try a diet. If you really want to make her happy give her a really good makeover so she can see the good things about her and how pretty she is. Release her inner beauty and help her with her outer beauty. Give her nothing but confidence. Try to say good things to her and give her alot of compliments. Go to someone you know will help at school, like some of your other friends and ask them to say to Ashleigh " i love your shirt, where did you get it?". Stuff like that will help. Tell your counselor and teacher to give her confidence and boost her self esteem!
Hope i helped
xOxO
Im 13, and im in 8th grade. Theres this girl, her name is Ashley. She is VERY annoying and she constantly follows me and thinks im her best friend. Shes not my best friend! I have 3 best friends and she is tearing us apart becasuse whenever I leave her for them, she gets mad, and I can't even talk to them without her there! I don't know how to get rid of her because I really want me and my best friends to hang out again without her! I know it's mean but I dont have a choice and shes very geeky and nobody really likes her! Please don't tell me to tell her to go away because everyone is telling me to do that and I don't have the heart to. What should I do?
~Kylie~
Well you can ditch her, which i must say is very hard. Or, you can say to her I really need some time alone and some personal space, can you give me today without you bugging me. If she always wants to hang out, say your busy and make plans with your other three best friends.
Hope i helped
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i asked you a question about how to help my friend and you asked if i go to church and my answer is no...why?
i just sent you a full answer
i have a friend and she's heavily into drugs she does them all the time because she tries to get away from her problems. she always says she's fine but i know she's not and i don't know how to help her what do i do?
If u go to church then tell your preacher and ask him if he could not tell anyone. Then take her to church and get her involved. Then if you have a help team at church, mines called the 411 group request them to talk to her, but remeber you were never involved. If you don't go to church and your in school then go to your school counselor. They are always a big help. Try, Try, Try and never give up becuase if you pray for her and help her as much as you possibly can, you'll get her on the road to success! hop i helped!
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!
Well try to make plans to meet your best friend's friend. If that fails, try to make plans is way advance with her.