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I'm Jen, I'm really fun and I love to help people. I'll answer questions about sports, friendships, health, family issues or relationship problems. Hopfully I'll be able to help.
Gender: Female
Location: Westminster, Maryland
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Age: 18
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Member Since: September 15, 2006
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Last Update: September 16, 2006
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hi snapitsjen. i gotz a friend named jessi shes 16 and im 15. well we both like this guy named jordan whos 16...the thing is jordan flirts with me and holds my hand and i really dont wanna lose my friendship with her. what can i do? please help. thanks

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Okay first of all I would tell your friend about Jordan and second of all I wouldn't wanna loose my friendship over a guy...So either tell her how you feel about the guy...or um just tell him that you don't wanna mess up your friendship with Jess. Good Luck.

Jen


Homecoming is coming up, and I don't have a date, nor do I think I will get one. My friends Alex and Kim (both girls)say I should go with them since they don't have dates either. I really want to go, so what I was thinking is I would bribe my friend Ty (boy) into taking me, and we would still go with Alex and Kim. Before I knew them, Alex had a crush on Ty, and he found out and started teasing her and flirting really bad with her, so now she kind of hates him, but he is an assistant coach on her swim team so she tolerates him. The other problem is he is 19 and I am 16. My parents don't have a problem with me asking Ty, so I was wondering if I should ask Ty to take me knowing the history with him and Alex. (link)
Girl do what you want it's your life, I mean not anything stupid of course. Ask Ty to the dance I mean if I were you I'd go just friends so nothing happens. But I hope everything goes well for ya! Take care

Jen


Please answer honestly....
ok. I have this friend named Lauren, who has been my friend since she was 1 (and i was 2) she a grade below me. This other girl, Caitlyn, has been my friend for about two years now. Not very long, i know. They have this other friend, Amanda, who i just met this year, and we aren't really friends, but we get along and stuff when we meet.
One day Caitlyn, who walks home, asked me to "miss" my bus, and call my mom and ask her if i can walk to caitlny's house with caitlny, lauren, and amanda (amanda's house is nearby, so she just goes there, but lauren and I go to caitlyn's house)
Well, that was fun. Now this week (the first time was last week)i asked if i could walk home with them again, and before caitlyn had a chance to answer, Lauren was just like "NO just me, caitlyn, and 'Manda." Then lauren and caitlyn walked off, and lauren and her arm around Amanda. They didn't even look back or wave or anything. They didn't even say bye.
Sorry this is so long...but what should i do??? i feel like im losing my best friends to amanda...i like amanda and all but i want to stay good friends with lauren and caitlyn. I need some advice, please help!!!!
I RATE! (link)
Hey if I were you I'd tell her the way you feel. Try talking to the girls about the situation and see if that works. Good Luck.

Jen




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