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Well, My names Samantha, I love giving advice, It's better to talk about problems because that actually solves them. I love Listening to music (rap, r&b, ect.), I love watching basketball since my boyfriend plays it I go to a lot of his games, I love sports, Swimming, Soccer, Dancing ect, I love hanging out with friends, and Talking on the internet. My friends say I give really good advice so I thought I'd give this thing a try, I'll answer any question as long as it's no rude/bitching questions towards me, otherwise I'll help with anything. My birthdays October 23, so I'll be 14 soon. It's weird because I feel so much older, and when I tell people I'm only 13 they think I'm lieing because I look like I'm 16 lol. I've gone through a lot of things early so, I'm someone you can probably relate to on a lot of subjects, or I've already been through what your going through. One thing I can say to everybody is don't be immature and don't talk shit or get so obsessed with someone that you look at their shit and write something rude to them because it just shows that you still care about them and what their doing, if you don't like someone just leave them alone. Espectually if you can't even say who you are, and don't let what anyone says get to you because thats just what they want. So any questions just ask by clicking ask a question above or click ask me for advice underneath this, please leave a comment and a rating on my advice. Thanks
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Location: Jamestown, New York
Occupation: School
Age: 13
Member Since: July 14, 2005
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so what if i have this "friend" that i fight with all the time about stupid shit but i like being her "friend" or accuaintance because she is fun to talk to? then whenever i say we're fighting to people, i'm friends with her the next day and then people say "i thought you didn't like ______?" what should i do sam?
Well for 1 stop telling people you don't like her when your fighting. Because you obvoiusly are good friends who just fight, so just tell people your fighting and will probably be friends tomorrow, or my best advice would be just not to say shit at all. And when people ask just be straight with them and say we were fighting but we're cool now as usual. Whatever you do just don't talk shit because you know you'll end up friends and if that shit gets back to her I'm sure it won't make her feel good.
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*Samantha
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i use to be best friends with this girl who i thought looked up to me well we stop being friends idk why but we dont hate eachother and she never talks to me and waht should i do shes turning bad
Wow, thats weird because the same thing is happening to me or already did lol. Well it depends on what kind of girl she is. Like if you can talk to her about it or if she'll just not listen. Because weather your friends anymore or not, you were at one time and those times you spent together, they'll make it so you'll always have love for the person just because of all you went through. So if you can try and talk to her about it, figure out why shes doing these "bad things" but if shes changed so much so probably won't care or realize that what your saying is right until it's too late. So this sounds harsh but if she doesn't listen to you, theres nothing you can really do, it's sad and it hurts so much to see someone you care about through their future anyway but really you have no control over it. They can say they know your right but still not even care and just blow what you have to say off. She obvoiusly either never saw you the way you thought she did or shes changed too much for anyone to save her. I wouldn't recommend this but it's your chioce. Its kind of ratting the person out which I'm not into and wouldn't do but if you talk to her and she doesn't listen you could call her parents and inform them on whats going on because they have a better chance of changing things than you. ONLY do that if you tried talking to her about whats going on first.
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*Samantha
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What are you supposed to do when a bisexual friend girl likes another non-bisexual friend girl?
Well I dont know what the situation in your case is but if your the girl who likes another girl I'd have to say to not pressure her in anyway and you need to accept that her views on relationships aren't the same as yours, and just don't make her feel uncomfortable, because you can still have a friendship, it's better than nothing right? But definitely don't try and change a straight girl into a bi because you have baseically no chance. If shes not into it right away she probably won't ever be 100% confortable with it. But if your the girl thats straight then the best thing to do would be to just tell her your not into that, don't be mean about it just make it clear to her that your not trying to insult her in anyway because how she chooses to live her life isn't any of your business. But you don't want anything more than a friendship with her, and if she can't accept that than she wasn't ever a true friend to you because she has to accept that thats not your style and you don't feel comfortable with her hitting on you or trying to get with you.
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*Samantha
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