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I have a friend you always says she's really depressed. At first i really was worried and i belived her to the fullest, but now its like she does it only for attention!! I hate it! She wont even eat anymore! I try to get her too but she refuses to! I dont know how to act around her anymore, cause she always takes everything the wrong way, Please please please help!! I'll rate high i promise!! I just dont know what to do! (link)
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OK, dont force her into anything. Tell your mom or dad about this, beause the worst things are left unspoken. LEt her do as she pleases until it need medical help. Then litterally force her. I can help you more if I get more information on the progress, so if you need more ask! And shes probably not doing this for attention!
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Sometimes when I mess up on the littlest thing or I don't get my way, I get really sad and upset, and I don't understand why. Even while I'm upset I tell myself, "This doesn't make sense to be upset now" but I get upset anyways and I don't get out of my mood until I get something new or I find something to do that interests me. I really hate getting mood swings. Is there a way to knock myself out of these moods? Are they even natural? (link)
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Natural- yes.
If you get these all the tie, you may be acutely depressed..but not enough to make you crazy! To get rid of these, dont lock yourself into activities so much, so if you mess up it means nothing! Also, dont try to worry so much about something your doing (in the beginning) or take breaks from something. For you not getting your way, if you dont, alternate what you want so that you can somewhat compromise to get something close to the original item! Need more info? I know this was vague, ask me more if you need it, but with detail hun!
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I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship? (link)
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Dreams are usually a sign of what you want to live like! Make sure you want to though, like if you like how he acts and everything, putting the "things" aside :) You should feel good around his friends too! Go ahead, start something hun, but dont rush into things until your sure..until then..just dream away :D
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ok so a couple of days ago my chrch went to camp.. jst the middle school people... so i think i really changed but when i came back i broke up with my boyfriend and i just don't feel liek hangin out with some of my friends like that go to my school. iu mean i don't feel liek hangin out with my best friends and i don't know why.. most of them go to church or are vistin churches but i don't know whyn i don't wanna talk to them or hang out with tme even though i love them all to death!! i mean it feels liek im doin the right thing but how can i be doin the wrong thing when i'm not talkin to my best friends?? i just need some help so if someone would!! i rate high!!!!!!! (link)
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Best thing to do- Go do something really fun to you guys! You may just be changing, it happens alot :) If theyre your best friend,s, they should be able to accept you changing! You may not want to hang with them when you go do something fun, but eventually you'll have fun! And if you still feel like this, go meet new people! A fresh face is always a good thing. But make sure to be nice (or however you are originally) to your old friends! Good Luck! :)
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Well i have this friend lets call him fred... Yesterday i was talking to fred when i found out that he had tried to kill himself tree times already... but the worst thing is he is only in 7th grade... what can i do to help him? please help.. (link)
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Do not refer anything with "crazy, psychologist, or insane" in the conversation :) The reason people do these things is because theyre
- Not liking how they see themselves
- Sick of Rumors
- Not getting along with someone close to them
And many other reasons!
Ask him one day "You know, you may be going through something now, but you have many years ahead of you. You will meet people, have fun, and have everlasting memories. Do you really want to throw ALL these away, and hurt people around you? Like, your family, or friends, or even me? *do NOT do a puppy dog face, hehe.* Your suicide would kill people, not physically, but emotionally. They'll feel closed off, and unstable, because of what you would have done. Just because (whatever his reason is), do you want to make everyone numb inside?" He needs to think, about his reason. Just confront him saying that (if the reason is small) something so little shouldn't take a life!
*gives you something to think about, when talking to him*
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So many will grieve, so many you will leave.
A loss of brown eyes, don't ignore the help of cries.
Your family...and friends, heart won't break but will only bend.
Whats the use, who will you amuse, no one...
It will be a waste of precious youth.
What is the reason? It won't be the right conclusion.
Seek the ones you love, they'll give you the right shove.
Don't be afraid, they give many healings.
I don't want a flower on your casket, rather the petals in a basket.
You are stronger, hold on longer. You can make it, get out of the pit.
Wake up, Sure, the road will be bumpy, but don't get so jumpy.
Don't let this be the end....
Just ask him, WHY! And Good Luck hun :)
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Hey this is (Hailey!) Ok, my 3 friends and I got in a fight, and its been 3 days since we haevnt been friends, and i mean, we were best friends to tha bone! And they are out having fun while I am sitting at home a mess because i miss them. They haven't even called me or talked to me. They don't even care about me. I don't want to lose them, but it looks like they DO want to lose me. What should I do? Because I know most of you will probably say "they arent worth it," or "make new friends" but i love them to death and i dont want to just let this go. And I mean, i've already tried to solve it, i've tried everything. THEY HATE ME. OMG Help please. I cant take this much longer. :'-( (link)
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Hmm..well Im not going to say those things :) Go up to them and just say that you'd like to start over, or that it's been long enough for you guys to "cool-down". They were your friends once for a long, great time it seems. So why cant they again? If it is a little fight they should have gotten ove it by now :) And good luck!
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My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends. (link)
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Well, it sounds like your boyfriend can't decide "He KEEPS dumping me". If hes having trouble picking one of you guys to have a relationship with, it is HIM who should take a break from one of you, because he obviously is having internal doubts/hopes about you guys. Also, you should confront your friend. But be kind, because enemies about guys is not the best thing to have :). Tell her that your not really liking how she is attempting to make a move at your guy, and you'd really like it if she would slow down in front of him( the flirting ). worst thing to do is to leave something unsaid :D
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