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Q: At school I have a group of about 5/6 friends, but out of that group of friends only 2 are my closet friends. Well, we got out of school on a half-day and I invited one girl to hang out...lets call her Victoria. Well, somehow Sierra finds out and wanted to go, but I really wanted it to be just us-( me and Victoria)! Anyways, the Sierra just self-invited herself because she came up to me the day of and said, oh hey I'm coming with you after school...THAT IS NO WAY TO ASK SOMEBODY. So after school, before we were leaving I tried to explain that she should have asked me cause my mom doesn't even know her and etc. Well, she didn't get it so she ended up coming. Well, at the time I let it go, but later that night I wrote her through myspace saying how I didn't like what she did and how I feel like shes using me...etc. So now shes being all dramatic saying I'm not her true friend and has been ignoring me for a while now. Ive called her and said sorry but shes taking this way to far, while I didn't mean to hurt her feelings as a friend we should be able to talk to each other without the other reacting so poorly. I never SAY anything or stick up for myself so saying this was really big for me and then she went and made it seems like I was out to hurt her and how I'm not her true friend. So I question my question is...do you think I should leave her alone and forget about it....or try to become her friend again...( b/c of right now we aren't friends). THANKS SO MUCH!

Dear... Confused.

I know how you feel. My advice is to leave it as it is. If what your saying is true, than shes the one who isn't a real friend. Acting immature and poorly like that is just unreasonable. Truthfully, just forget about her. You might not want to but TRUE friend don't do that. But if you're still considering being her friend, give it some time. Eventually you never know, she might come running back to you. But for now, leave her alone and make her feel how you felt.

Karma sweetie.

Yours truly,

Rhaychull

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