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Okay, i went over to my friends house this one night and this guy that i liked was over there. The thing is that he had a girlfriend. Well, we were on his AIM and his g/f told me to call her, next thing i know i am on the phone with her and she broke up with her boyfriend. About 5 minuted later she was with another guy. I felt so bad for this other guy! So, me and this other guy started to flirt next thing i know we were holding hands and stuff. i felt really bad for doing this when my best friend just broke up with this guy but all that was going through my head was that she is with another guy so why should she care.
well, the girl who's house i was at told this other girl everything that me and this guy were doing and my BEST FRIEND got pissed and called me a whore and slut. it was such a suprise i couldn't believe it! she has another friend and she cheats on her boyfriends and she doesn't get mad at her. the next day of school i was dreading! but first thing she did was walk up to me and we talked for like 5 minutes and she wasn't mad at me anymore...the thing is that i was mad at her for saying all of those nasty things about me. and you can ask anyone at my school i am not a whore or slut.
i still hold this against her but at the same time i'm nice to her, should i still be mad or what?
signed,
confused (link)
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You should deff tell her that you are pretty sad. Don't get angry just say you didn't appreciate it when she turned on you. It wasn't fair what she said so be nice, yes, but tell her you don't want her to turn on you like that anymore.
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ok heres the story: my friend, lets call her becky, well she has had a boyfriend for about 2 months now, lets call him bob. becky really likes bob but then again she can't make up her mind who she likes. she flirts with other guys and like me and her sister and her ex-bf think that bob is using her. bob is younger than her by a couple of months. every time i am with becky and bob they hold each other and crap and i am tired of it.(i'm not jealous b/c i have a bf.) bob makes faces behind beckys back and talks about her and shit and it makes me laugh so when becks asks what is so funny i say bob and then like he totally denies it. something is fishy about him b/c he wouldn't let becky see his yearbook. (btw becky is homeschooled and bob goes to public school. i don't know how to confront becky about this. i tried asking her before but she doesn't listen. i don't know what to do! HELP! (link)
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Only way is to just tell. her. Bob is being a jerk and if she's truly your friend you'll tell her.
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this is kind of long.im 16. ok so I have had this friend that I have known since pre-k, and we used to be super cool. and now that its summer we had all these plans to have sleepovers and everything and just have fun. but we only have gotten together once since the beginning of summer and that was like for only like an hour and a half. and the first day we planned to have a sleepover and she said she would call when shes about to come over, but she never called that night. so i called the next day and we planned to have a sleepover that night but she didnt call again. after a while i just gave up and we havnt talked since like the last time (a couple of days ago) that i asked for her to come over. she never gave a reason for her not coming over. do you think she still likes me? I mean we've known eachother sing PRE-K! is it really that easy to just forget someone? please dont be sarcastic if you answer this because it herts to loose a friend.... (link)
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I think that if you feel you are losing her it is time for a serious talk because I know how hard it is to lose a really really close friend. Make sure she knows you're upset, but not completely angry. Don't yell or explode jusdt let her know how sad you feel .When you do that things should turn out better!:)
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