I'm James, I'm 16 and live in the most irrelevant place in England. I really like music and I play saxophone and piano.
If you need any help with anything I'll try and help you and if you want to ask me about any problems then I'm not going to tell anyone about them - it stays strictly confidential
E-mail: randomguy13554@hotmail.co.uk
Gender: Male
Location: England
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
MSN: randomguy13554@hotmail.co.uk
Member Since: November 10, 2005
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well me and my friends have been friends since middle school. now they all see to have started leaving me out. not asking for plans. barally talkign to me in the halls, talkign to me like only if its convienent for them. even my best friend now has a boyfriend and she does not make time for me and i ask her all the time for plans but yet it seems as though she has plans for them. im so lonely. i recently stoped talkign to the kid i like. and we stoped hooking up, and i have no one. please dont say that i should go make other friends. cuz this is highschool, its not that easy. those are my friends. i just dont now what to do anymore. i hate sittin ghome and being alone. (link)
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No offence, but they don't seem like the greatest of friends, although I've been in the same situation. Perhaps you should try to get together with all of them for a trip to the movies or something like that - try to repair your friendship with them before you drift too far apart. If they still don't seem interested then you should try to find other people (I know it's difficult but if your previous friends don't seem interested then it may be the only option)
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all my friends (that are girls) are prettier than me ! especially my bestfriend ! she is like perfecttt ! she has the perfect face, the perfect hair, she is a perfect cheerleader, and she has the perfect body
.. and me well im skinny so im not that big-chested .. and well my hair never comes out as good as hers and i have the worst smile.. like i got braces and my teeth are straight .. but their reallly big and my smile isnt a good smile.. ALL my friends have good smiles and are pretty and outgoing and the boys like them..
like i mean i dont think im UGLY .. but compared to them i feel like i am ..
i just need something to help me gain more self-confidence and stop me from being so self-conscious about the way i look and i want to be more outgoing like my friends
is it wierd that i'm jealous of my friends? what can i do so i wont be jealous anymore? (link)
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It's not wierd to be jealous - you will always find yourself being jealous of someone for something. All I can say is that being happy with yourself is the first step towards being more confident - don't let the fact that they're more pretty/outgoing/thinner/whatever than you make you feel inferior. There will be people who like you for who you are. Until you find them, just be yourself, be happy with who you are and what you're like and people will see you as a more confident person.
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