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im 15/f and i do not like to hang out with girls...i hate girls they suck i always havve liked haning out with boys more...so i have a lot of friends that are boys and i also have a boyfriend...well recently my mom has started yelling at me to stop hanging out with guys and hang out with girls...well i dont like them...so how can i tell my mom i dont want to hang out with girls cus i get along with guys better?

just tell her straight out that you do not want to hang out with girls, but if she really insists, then why don''t you find a girl who's personality and intrests that are similar to yours. You are bound to get along fine because all girls are different, just because they are physically different than guys doesnt mean that they are all flighty, materialitic and shallow. Your mom may have a point, i know guys are great, but it might be nice for you to hang with a girl, it helps to have someone of the same sex to talk to!! Plus don't you think you're going to have a tough time in life if you hate females. i know it's not really my place to tell you what or who to like, but i think you shuld just talk to your mom about the conflict, then give girls a try, I mean, you are a girl!

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GoSh im having really bad luck with guys lately. all of the people i think are sooo hott and stuff dont think im hot but ive started hangin out with this girl..i mean she is like one of my best friends and she is absolutely gorgeous!! all of the people i thought were hott saw my friend and they're all like oh my gosh she is soo hot! and im really jealous of my friend ..i admitt im jealous but i dont know what to do! and this other kid that i kinda like i mean i cant like him because i dont know him but he is just soo cute but he goes to a different school..so i dont even get to see him only once in a while..and i havent even talked to him yet! ahhh i dont know how to tho my cousin kind of talks to him but they switched quarters and now she doesnt know if he will be in any of hers..and then she says that she kinda likes him ..i mean i cant say i like him i just think he is the cutest thing ever and i would maybe like to hangout with him! please dont suggest aim..tried that..didnt work out very well..very confusing so i dont know what else! everytime i ask my cousin to ask him to go to a movie with us he is just like maybe i will try to make it! and he never comes..so that doesnt work! any ideas for all of this?! i just feel so ugly lately =[

thanks..

don't feel ugly. Think about it, in the long run, do you want a man who loves you because you look beautiful, or a man who loves you because you are a beautiful person internally. everyone will grow old and loose their looks, but love will last, it will outlive external beauty!! I know that looks are what is on everybody's mind-girls and guys-during this day and age, but i just hope you wont get to concerned with it. you'll meet the right guy, and maybe this guy is the one. well about this guy. ask your cousin about him, is he nice, smart, or is he a jerk. then you will know a little bit more about him. this is a really hard situation because your cousin is not being very helpful!! I would say that you should try to get to know him and some of his friends with out the help of your cousin. And finally about your gorgeous best friend. Dont worry about it, just be confident with the way you look, think about it this way, you could be in a MUCH worse situation!! i hope you feel better about yourself!
peace.love.happiness

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just to let you guys knwo im not using the real peoples names but still the situation that is going on.

ok at the beginning of the year i was really close with three other girls (Jessica, Lisa, and Natalie) we were all really close and kind of had a little clique thing. we told each other everythin but i was kind of closer to Lisa and Jessica and Natlaie were close together.

as the year went on it kind of split off into me and lisa and jessica and natalie.

we always had stupid fights which ALWAYS ended up being misunderstandings. like me and lisa thought they were ignoring us and they thought we were ignoring them. whatever. so these problems kept on happening

eventually me and lisa jsut sort of gradually stopped talking to Jessica and Natalie.

then the other day natalie let my friend see her phoen and my friend saw a text message that jessica sent to natalie saying "i hate samantha (me) and lindsay" this really through me off guard.

i mean i knew we had some problems but come on hate is a very strong word.

my question is i dont know if i should try to work it out with jessica and natalie i mean we were all really close or should i just stop being friends with them. i really dont know what to do please help!

dont take this offensively, but unless im misunderstanding you, natilie and jessica seem a little immature for saying those things about you and lindsay. Really, if i were you i would try to work it out, but if they continue to talk about you behind your back, i would definetly move on, they aren't worth your time. I hope all goes well
peace.love.happiness

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