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Im have a lot of expiriance in my life. like family problems love life problems frienship problems lost of lovedones and many more! so i can relate to almost about anyting!im a really careing person, i love to give advise thats why i started this! lol! every 1 shouldnt be afraid to show their real selvs!, because everyone has problems!
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Age: 14
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My best friend is a guy, (ryan). Latley he`s been waiting for me outside of my homeroom class and walking me to 1st period. Then we walk together to 2nd. I catch him looking at me alot and were always together in class. About a month ago he started hugging me goodbye, and latley the hugs are getting more romantic. He talks to me differently, calls me, and always wants to hang out. He has been complementing me on my outfit even when I`m wearing a t-shirt and boy`s bball shorts and his hoodie he loaned me. He says I look beautiful when I just wake up and my hairs a complete mess and I have no make up on. So, as you can see I really think he likes me more then a friend now, I`ve liked him before like this, but for some reason now, I`m enjoying all this attention and flirting he`s givin me, but I just can`t picture myself with him. What do I do ? I don't want to go out with him, we brake up, then lose our 5 years of being BFFs!

sorry for it being so long, i`ll appreciate any help.
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I think that you should tell him that you just wanna be friends but if i was you id explin y you dont wanna go out with him. Every1 is afraid of loosing a friend. If i was you id stay friends with him but yet have a lil fun. like play with him but dont show that you really like him. you kno what i mean? well any ways yea i think that you should make up your mind if you really like him or not.
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Okay, as childish as this might sound, I needed to ask it anyways. I'm 15 female, and this other girl named; Rachael is 14. Rachael rides my bus & she was my first friend at school. I just recently moved here, she was/still is a loner too! After about a month she really started to annoy me, & I guess you could say I really don't like her AT ALL. But, she still follows me around, talks to me, etc. I'm not mean to her though - Seen as; I'm nothing like that. I'm seriously one of the nicest people alive. I really don't like to yell at people but if it becomes necessary, then I do. Today on the bus she took my purse because stupid me left it in the seat while I went back to my locker to get a book. When I got back she said, "I threw your purse out the window! Your love took the purse I don't have it!" Which really pissed me off. I asked her nicely for about 5 minutes, then I just lost it and totally flipped out, I really wanted my purse back & I knew she had it. She gave it back 10 mins after that and I ignored her the rest of the way home. When she asked if I was mad at her I said no, because I think it might seem childish if I were to say yes because she stole my purse & I defintiely didn't want to be the immature one in the situation. I was wondering, if I did right? Did it seem childish of me not to talk to her, or do you think that I did right? Thanks!!

Sorry this is so long, but I really needed to know. (link)
Im fourteen and i kno when something is childish or not. trust me ai act like a kid most of the time! but im sure that this wasnt childish. Real friend shouldnt lie or take stuff. You had the right to get mad. I mean its your purse!!!! 1 of girls best friends (i think) lol well she had no right to try and keep it. Just remember to take good care of your stuff.




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