STRAIGHTxEDGE
Gender: Female Member Since: May 24, 2005 Answers: 30 Last Update: November 8, 2005 Visitors: 3350
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ok my best friend is moving and it is realy hard because we have been best friends and neighbors forever what can i do =( (link)
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same thing happened to me 2 with in the past few months , one is just to a diff neighbor hood and the other to a diff state. It really sucks and is hard to handle.
Just make sure you stay in touch. and make sre him/her know they arent going to be replaced. If its far away, make plans to meet over summer break or write alot and call alot. If its just around the city, make plans for the week ends and stuff.
Always keep in touch.
You never wanna loose a bff
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This lad at my school has been spreading rumours that my dad beats me we used to be best friend but i never told him that the only thing is that he did see my dad hit me once and its because i was being rude to him. but now everyone looks at me like im some freak ive talked to him and he just says im speaking the truth what should i do? (link)
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Like I told some one else. Theres only 2 people who really need to know the truth. Thats you and The good Lord. If you 2 know the truth , nothing else matters. But if some one says somthing to you , dont be afraid to Stand up for your slef say "i dont know where you got that rumor from but its not true" h=give this time.... it will alll blow over.
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When I was 9 my mom threw me and brother out on the streets. He was 16 at the time and he took care of me. I'm 15 now and he's 23. Well I usually don't tlak about my past because I really don't think that it's that bad. At least I had my brother and that's more than some people have. Well the school found out about what was going on so I had to go to the school counsellor and talk to him and he told me that it would be a good idea to find someone that I can really trust at school to talk to if I have a problem. I really don't have a best friend I have friends but I never really got close enough to anyone where I was comfortable talking to them about important stuff. Well anyway I finally got up the courage to talk a girl that I've been friends with for a long time. At first she was really nice about it she said she would be there for me and that she understood and that it's ok to talk about things. Then I heard her say that I'm a lier and that I make things up for attention. I finally talked to someone and they did this to me. She told everyone that I pretend to do drugs and that I act all tough but I really don't. I've never said that I've done drugs or even tried them. I don't believe that they are the answer to anything.
My question is what can I do about this? Should I say something to her or pretend like nothing happened? And should I trust someone else or should I just keep things to myself like I did before? Thank you in advance and I will rate high. (link)
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Well for the most part I would say ...ignore it. I mean theres only 2 people who really need to now the truth and thats You and the Good Lord. You beleive your self and he does too. But if some one says this stff to your face dont be afraid to stand up for your self. Tell them "hey i dont know where u herd that but its not true!" i dont know what else to say so i hope ive helped in any way possible
-High Hopes, Becky
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