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nancy
and im ready and willing to give you my advice
[if you dont like it well thats simply not my problem]

i AM a young person
but that sholdn't make a difference

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if you don't well

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*i tend not to read over my advice so if i misspell anything im really sorry ...

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this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her. (link)
Okay,
a person like this isn't a good thing to have around and eventually you'll probably drift apart from her.

Okay but i still think that you should maintain a relationship with her just to keep your name clean, you know?

So, yeah do that.

As far as her reputation goes, she'll have to make that decsision. Karma will eventually bite her in the tushy. People will talk and she will get sick of it and try to change.

yeah.
-Nancydotcom ©


15/f
[kind of long. but i really need help]

there's this girl that i'm friends with. we used to be best friends, but lately our relationship has been kind of strained. she's just been so out of control the past 2 weeks that i have no idea how to handle it. we were basically the same two weeks ago.
we're both 15 going on 16, and we had never been drunk, or done anything illegal, or had boyfriends, or h/u'd with anyone. well it started when she went to this persons sweet 16 and got drunk at an afterparty. at first i was like whatever. everyone gets drunk as a teen, no big deal. then last friday she told me she smoked cigarettes, something we swore to eachother we would never EVER do. i was in a different state this week visiting relatives and while i was gone she threw a wild house party and did weed and got completely drunk and h/u'd with 4 guys and got fingered. and she may have had sex but she doesn't even remember. I feel like she's changing too fast and there's nothing i can do about it. and even though i wasn't even in the same state as her when this party happened, i somehow feel responsible. like i let her down in a way. like i was the reason she started hanging out with these kind of people because i had been a bit too clingy and pushed her away and made her want to rebel against everyone. she doesn't understand that she can get in serious trouble for what she did, if anyone ever finds out. and the worst part is, i don't think she even feels bad about it. she'd wanted to get drunk and high and make out with guys so bad. she told me this. and it seems like she's kind of happy about it and i just don't know what to do to make her understand how worried i am about her and how dangerous this kind of behavior really is without sounding too motherly and like a loser.

any advice is appreciated. (link)
Dido
i had the same problem when i was younger so i know where youre coming from so
My advice:
You should tell her how you feel [and no its not gonna be as easy as it sounds] so the most painless way to tell her is by writting her a letter.

Tell her everything how she's going down a downwards spiral
-and blah blah blah

For her this IS just going to be just a phase and sort of a right of pasage kind of thing and EVENTUALLY she will get over it.

-I hope for the best for you and your friend !

if you need any further advice you can rach me at:
nancydotcom@rock.com

XOXO
-Nancydotcomâ„¢




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