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Im your normal 15 year old. I have problems too but my friends told me to do this cause im always helping out people. im 15 live in hollywood *and no its not as great as you hear* and i just wanna help people out

ps: i miss everyone in florida.

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I am like nearly bestfriends with this girl at my school. We hang out at school, and on occasion at her house or mine. But when she is with a huge group of friends I feel left out. Like she is busy talking to her other friends and does not pay attention to me, and her friends that she hangs out with always look at me all weird like I don't belong with the group. And ever since school started she barely talks to me because she is busy with her other friends. Although I do walk up to her and say hi but since she is always with other friends she doesn't talk much to me.

How can I get more attention from her, and get our old friendship back?

Although I would like to be closer friends with her, and hang out more without her losing her other friends. I totally respect her other friends. Also, sometimes I prefer just hanging out with her alone, so how can I get that to happen? She is never available because she is busy hanging out with other friends and I would like to hang out with her as well.

I apoligize for asking so many questions, but please answer as many as you can, and just give polite suggestions and tips, please.

Thank you for your time into reading this.

Im in the same situation. its hard but i know how it feels like she only talks to you when noones around and whn other people are around she totally ignores you. like shes using you just cause noone else is around. well i think you should just sit down with her and be honest and tell her how you feel and maybe start talkin to some of the other people shes friends with so it will make her feel lke how you feel and it may get her to talk to you more. and its normal for friends to drift and i know it sucks. but i think you can make your friendship last

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Okay well 14/f. My best friend in the entire world has been being REALLY mean to me lately. I'm thinking that she's jealous, but I don't understand why...She is only mean when we are around other people usually, and I've noticed she always makes herself look better than me in all situations. She always says mean comments and does things to put me down, but that's only when we are hanging around with our group of friends. When we are alone or on the phone, she's nice to me. Online,she makes fun of my guy friends because they are apparently "dorky" to her, so she was making fun of them. I was really angry at her and I confonted her online first after she made the comments about my friends. I told her "why are you saying that about them?" she said "I don't know, I thought you didn't like them" I said "well, they are my friends, just like you are. So please don't talk bad about them, even if you don't like them". I think she got the point because she appologized. But now today in lunch at school, she bragging about herself and then making comments about how I don't have what she has. It was mostly about material items, which I could care less about.

I really don't want to stop being friends with her. I love her to death. She's been my best friend for so long, and I really have more fun with her than anyone. She's like a sister to me and I don't want to lose her.

Please& thankyou

okay i had the same situtation like 2 months ago the same thing happened! but what happened with us that it got so bad she started thinging that i wasnt good enough for her so she started hanging out with the more "popular girls" and yeah the 1st 2 weeks i was so sad but then i relized it was for the best. you need to confront her and ask her if shes going to act like that or change to be ur friend. and if ur friendship ends i bet u'll make a better friends
hope i helped!

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