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Hi! I'm Miss. M, and I am here to give help to anyone that may need advice. To the highest extent of my capabalities, I'll try my best to find a solution to your problems.In addition, I just want to thank the people that have rated me. Thanks for the support. :) And Thanks For The Feedback :)
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ok so, i met these guys at the local pool with my friends. some of my friends go there all the time so they knew each other, there are 3 guys and one came up to me and said "you're too quiet" but im usually really fun to be around, i just ran out of things to talk about even though i dont know how thats possible lol. we talked about really random weird funny stuff like tan lines and strippers, teenage stuff haha but i don't know what to talk to him about?
Just be yourself. Talk about things you normally talk about. Ask him about some of his interests, hobbies that he may like. If you all get together for like a movie or something, ask him what movies he has seen, or which ones he really liked. Talk about music. Anything that may be general and start connecting from there, pointing out similar interests or different interests too.
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I've known this girl (Kylie) since I was a kid. She's nice and we're pretty close and I would have said we were best friends until a few days ago. The other day we were talking to our other group of friends about being best friends and asking who was their best friend in the group. I know, odd discussion probably. Anyways, Kylie says she use to be bestfriends with this other girl from another school but isn't any more because she went around her school bragging to people that she fingered Kylie when they had sleepovers. Kylie is like, "That's what best friends do though! OMG!" and went on about how the other girl was being cold and cruel and how it totally made her not want to be friends with the girl anymore.
Nobody in the group seemed to be freaked out about it. I know two girls in the group made out before but I never thought about this sort of thing happening because we're ALL straight. Is this normal? For best friends to finger each other? I've never done this...am I weird, missing something, or...? :\
Well maybe they were friends with priveleges or something because your friend, Kylie, was wrong when she generalized that all best friends finger themselves.
I guess that was just a secret between them and when it was let out, Kylie's defense was to say that it was perfectly normal.
So I think it's just a matter of how much involved you want to be with your friends because consequences like these are a possibility.
And if the other girls didn't freak about it, it's becuase they either already knew, they tried to seem cool with it to avoid any judgement, or they have little dirty secrets under the rug as well. :)
So it's o.k. to freak out :) and you're not weird. You just weren't aware that this girl you were considering to be your best friend, had been fingered by her ex-bestfriend?...
Nothing's wrong with you. Take Care :)
I have a friend who likes me and tries to hook up with me but he has a gf (which he never even told me about, I had to find out from my friend) He's always flirting and tryin to do stuff with me and I really like him but I don't wanna mess around with him cuz he has a gf. I confronted him about it and he got mad but got over it. He still does it flirts with me and it's starting to get annoying. I don't want him to get mad at me again but I feel bad cause he has a gf. what do u think I should do? (all my friends say to tell him to leave me alone but I still want to be friends with him cause he's fun to be around)
When you confronted him about it, he shouldn't have gotten upset because it's the truth. He has a girlfriend and you feel uncomfortable with his flirting. Tell him again until it's clear that you don't want anything with him because he's taken. And tell him not to get angry, because the only person that has the right to get angry here is you, besides he's the one causing uncomfortable situations for you with his flirtation. So stay firm with what you have to tell him, cuz he seems like a stubborn one. :)
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im shy, always have been
recently started hanging out with new people plus my best friend. before that it was literally always me and my best friend just hanging out, we didnt have anyone else to chill with. now theres more people. but they all think im socially retarded and never talk. and my best friend is whatever. but now she is getting invited places and im not. and it sucks. a lot. and since i would ALWAYS hang out with her pretty mucch wherever we went, it sucks even more, cause i dont have anything to do half the time. it makes me feel like shit because they all think im boring and dont talk.. i do talk though, maybe not a lot, and im not the craziest person ever, but i just feel like no one ever listens. and i wasnt supposed to find this out but this one kid told this girl that he forgot to say bye to me but "its not like she was there anyway" ... hate myself. it just sucks so much and idk what to do about this cause theyre all immature. like YES im quiet. its part of my personality idk why its such a big deal. im not mute. people suck. sorry for ranting. this isnt even a question but more of a whats your opinion/rate my friends on a scale of horrible to bffs. ughh
Listen up. One of my best friends is shy and timid and may not speak as much as well, but that doesn't mean she's boring. :) What I really like about her is that she's a very kind person and whenever she has something to say, it's something meaningful. If your friends don't appreciate you the way you are, maybe they're not your true friends after all. There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe you should just try considering a new group of friends. Move along with people that love you and see all the good in you. I'm not saying to hang out with other quiet people just because you're quiet. I honestly don't know how that would turn out, :) but I CAN tell you that I'm very crazy, my friend is very shy and whenever we hang out together it's just alot of laughs, alot of fun, and alot of loudness. Don't worry you'll break out of your timid state whenever you find that right group of people you're comfortable with, that make you happy, and that make you laugh all the time. 'Cause after all, what are friends for. :) Later, people that didn't appreciate you will realize what a great person they lost. :)