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Q: The thing is, I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago, through a note. Stupidest move ever, never try it. Supposedly we broke up because I'm emapthic and I express other peoples emotions. To her, that meant I didn't love her. So we broke up because of that. What really started it was the fact she mentioned something on IM that she would normally say out loud. I believe that if you can mention something in a message or IM, you can just say it. She wouldn't and the whole empathic thing whatever. So we broke up.
Now, I can't stop thinking about it. Turns out, I've figured out, according to myself, that I gave her a chance to come back and we could start over. I waited and waited only to find out she's dating some other guy. So I gave up and thought nothing of. Until now when I realize that I'm still thinking about her and she cares nothing for me, totally oblivious. I want to tell her to her face how much of hurts inside to be told I don't feel any love for her and then she doesn't even try to get back together...
Sorry about the lengthiness, I tend to over do it on the details. But what should I do? Should I tell her to her face, on the fact just looking at her might send me over the edge!? I won't call her cause she can avoid listening by hanging up, I won't message her cause a message is just as bad as the first time. Do I just sit here and do nothing? No one tell me Ill get over it, cause its been months that I've been thinking about her... I'm so lost....
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honestly you can only do what feels right to you.
if you think that telling her face to face is best then do so, but remember that it can go either way.
you never know unless you try.
she could actually be feeling the same about you.
good luck
i hoped i helped=]
if you need anymore advice:
AIM= BubbleGum3236
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Q: The thing is, I broke up with my girlfriend several months ago, through a note. Stupidest move ever, never try it. Supposedly we broke up because I'm emapthic and I express other peoples emotions. To her, that meant I didn't love her. So we broke up because of that. What really started it was the fact she mentioned something on IM that she would normally say out loud. I believe that if you can mention something in a message or IM, you can just say it. She wouldn't and the whole empathic thing whatever. So we broke up.
Now, I can't stop thinking about it. Turns out, I've figured out, according to myself, that I gave her a chance to come back and we could start over. I waited and waited only to find out she's dating some other guy. So I gave up and thought nothing of. Until now when I realize that I'm still thinking about her and she cares nothing for me, totally oblivious. I want to tell her to her face how much of hurts inside to be told I don't feel any love for her and then she doesn't even try to get back together...
Sorry about the lengthiness, I tend to over do it on the details. But what should I do? Should I tell her to her face, on the fact just looking at her might send me over the edge!? I won't call her cause she can avoid listening by hanging up, I won't message her cause a message is just as bad as the first time. Do I just sit here and do nothing? No one tell me Ill get over it, cause its been months that I've been thinking about her... I'm so lost....
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honestly you can only do what feels right to you.
if you think that telling her face to face is best then do so, but remember that it can go either way.
you never know unless you try.
she could actually be feeling the same about you.
good luck
i hoped i helped=]
if you need anymore advice:
AIM= BubbleGum3236
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Q: My friend is so moody and we get mad at each other almost everyday!
its so fusrating and I cant really be in a good mood when she holds a grudge against me! She always gets mad at me for silly things like if I talk to 2 or 3 people for a minute, she gets jelous! Sometimes I am scared she doesnt like me as a friend and we have almost the opposite personality. Plz give me advise for what I should do, is it just me or can I do something or what is it???
THNX to the people who answer this qestion :)
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if she is getitng mad because you have other friends then shes not a real friend, whats the point of being friends with someone if you only fight, i mean ya you make up but then another fight again.
you should try and slowly drift away from her...
dont tell her that you dont wanna be friends because then she will take it to personal, introduce her to people you dont really hang out with but you kind of know, and then slowly stop talking to her
good luck
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Q: One of my friend broke up with me. He wasn't my bf, and we were just friend. But because he couldn't get what he wants from me, the relationship, he broke up our friendship and said he rather not to be my friend at all. So we are not friends anymore.
I still care about him, but he's not talking to me at all, and ignore me whenever he sees me. (we're in the same classes mostly)
What should I do?
(He doesn't respond my calls, txt, emails, and he block me on him im)
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He's trying to get you to give in.
if you dont want to be in a relationship with him then he should respect that and just be friends.
just dont try talking to him, he'll come around, he just needs his space...
give him time and see what happens.
if he doesnt want to be your friend because you dont want to be his girlfriend, then hes not even worth talking too.
i know you care about him, but you have to remember that this is his decision and if you do honestily care about him then you will just respect his decision.
just give it time and see what happens
=]
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Q: so my friends mike and drew invited me over tonight to hang out with them and this one other guy, but i'd be the only girl there. i'm afraid it'll be really awkward. like i'm friends with these guys, but idk, should i go?
15/f
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well they are your friend it wouldnt really matter if you were the only girl there.
i think you should go...
things wont be awkward just dont bring up "girl topic's" like your period or a really cute guy.
since there your friends act like you normally would around them.
Have fun!
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Q: what could we do this friday thats like really fun! ok so i dont really want to ddo the mall thing or movies or go out to dinnner becuase we do that almost every weekend and we want something new to do.. we already though of a sleep over but ehh not so awesome! ya know? so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what we could do thats really fun???
were 16 if that helps anything :]
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~underaged club
~arcade
~bowling
~plan a party
~roller blading rinks
~swimming
~gym
~look for "teen night" at community centers
i hope i helped
good luck
=]
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bio
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My name is sara
i put my opinion into things.
i love helping people with their problems.
ask me whatever you want, and i will try my best to answer it
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Gender: Female Age: 18 AIM: Member Since: December 20, 2007 Answers: 123 Last Update: December 28, 2009 Visitors: 7621
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