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so, I have been friends with tracy for 15+ yrs and thought our friendship was a close one. ( she lived with my family for over a year when I was over the road truck driving). her daughter is getting married in july and dress fitting is this week. tracy and I haven't been talking lately and im chalking it up to her boyfriend.
you see, tracys boyfriend jeff wants to go to her daughters wedding. seeing jeff up close and personal and dealing with him for a week at another vacation we had taken. I really don't think this is the guy for her. he is an alcoholic and talks to tracy like crap whenever he drinks too much. I don't like it and wont put up with that at her daughters wedding. I don't know if I even want to go knowing he is going to be there and up tracys ass the whole time. she wants to introduce him to her parents ( dad recovering alcoholic from many moons ago). I don't think this is a smart decision. what to do (link)
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Ok, so it sounds like his father is a crazy alcoholic but the fact that he will be at his daughters wedding is not a good idea, and you know this, therefor you don't think you should be there...
Hmm... thats a tough situation and i think i have some advice for you:
Not having a parent at your wedding is probably going to be the worst feeling ever unless they are dispicable people... maybe you should give him a chance, or talk to the daughter abuot her father being at the wedding. If she thinks it will be okay, just let it be and if things go awry, then you can speak up or talk to Tracy... If the daughter doesn't think the dad should be at the wedding, then you have your answer..
Hopefully this advice was good. if not, please specify more or something :)
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