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HEYYYYYYYYYYYYY! its missy lol well i thought it would be really fun to give people advice...so i guess dont me afraid to ask me anything
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ok i had this 1 best friend but we got in a big fight and now we arent friends anymore. But now she is turning all my other friends and other people against me. they are all spreading rumors like that i have aids and that i give out blow jobs and other things. one of the people even brought a knife to school and treatened to kill me. i have tried to become her friend again but its not working. she is callling me a slut cause i made out with her x-bf but then the next day she goes and has sex with him. how do i get the rumors to stop? and how can i get all these people not to hate me anymore?
ok oviously those people arent your real friends! you deserve better than that no matter who you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and your old friends sound horrible so ditch them and dont even worry about them because if they were ur true friends they wouldnt talk shit about you! but rumors are really hard to stop BELIEVE ME you just need to tell people the truth and if you didnt do whatever they are saying then just tell yourself you didnt and ignore those fags! that really sucks and im sorry!
ok well i have a best friend and we keep getting in all these fights and saying things we dont mean like the littlest things she does can make me SO mad or SO happy but lately it just seems like ive been getting mad more often. One second i love her to and the next im so ticked off. Sometimes it seems like she favors other people over me and it makes me sad.
What should i do to stop the fighting? How do i try to oversee the little things she does that make me mad/ sad? and how do we just be happy as best friends? thanks for your help!
like i have said so many times fighting is just something that comes along with friendship... but if yall are bestfriends there is no way that she could favor someone more than you i think she just has met cool people that she likes to hang out with too! but if she is doing things that make you mad or sad you shouldnt ignore you need to be honest because if shes your best friend she should understand how you feel!
i hope i helped!
hey is there such thing as relying on a friend for too much
no never!thats what friends are for
ok well me and like my best friend r like rly rly close...but lately it seems like she hates me and she dosnt wanna b my firend..sometimes she makes it seem like she dosnt wanna talk 2 me bout stuff and that she jus hates me or something..n when i dont do something with her thats tottaly stupid she gets pissed..n weve been gettin in fights SO much lately..like at least 12 times a month..idk if its jus me..but what do u think??
most people get into a lot of fights with there friends! a little is nothing to worry about but to much isnt cool and its just a waste of time! but the most important thing is what yall are fighting over if its a missunderstand then you should both realize its ridiculous and move on and get over it but if its important or serious things yall are fighting over then the best thing i think yall should do is talk about it! im sure your friend doesnt hate you tho like she might be going through alot and haveing a really bad day or week or whatever so im sure she does want to talk to you but just be there for her and ask her if she needs to talk about anything and let her know that your there for her even if she is ok! fighting can bring you closer or seperate you but just try your best to not get into fights and if you do then just talk about it shortly and say sorry (even if u think its all her fault) cause for me that helps and brings things back to normal...i hope this helped! feel free to ask me anything and good luck with your friend :)
ok this girl i introduced to that guy i really like is really starting to get on my nerves, we're all 3 in a chat room right now and she is like flirting like crazy and it's about to drive me insane. i can tell she's getting on his nerves because he's not joking around about it anymore but it's like really getting to me...what should i do..
i wrote the last one saying "i think i made a really bad mistake by introducing this guy i REALLY like to this girl" and the one about "my friend and i have been fighting a lot lately" just so u have an idea of who is writing all these
ok it seems like she is trying to rub this guy in your face and try to prove to you that she can get him? idk but thats what it seems like it and its a good thing for you if shes getting on his nerves but can you please im me cause this advice thing is kinda hard to write back and forth
hey missy i just wanted to say thanks for the great advice..i'll let you know how it goes. you give really good advise! thanks!
oh no problem at all! i love helping people! lol i dont know which question you asked but yeah! if you want IM me at missyhlovesya so i know who you are!
ok i think i made a big mistake...i introduced the guy i REALLY like to this girl who likes to flirt and she has already gotten the other guy i sorta like to like her and now they're going out. the guy i really like is also one of my best friends and i don't want anything to harm our friendship or anything. help me please!
ouch im sorry about all of this! but first of all try to be happy for your friends! i totally understand how much it hurts tho but the best thing you can do is tell your friend (the girl) that you like him...but it might not be a good idea to tell her when they are going out! but about this guy...well if yall are good friends then i wouldnt tell him that you like him unless he gives you a hint that he likes you just incase he sees you as just a friend! but the best thing to do is just wait it out and jr high realtionships usually dont last very long so just try to be paitent and if your friend talks about this guy 24/7 then you should say something about likeing him so she can back off lol that situation really sucks tho tell me how everything goes!!!!! SRY
ok..my friend and i have been fighting a lot lately and i always seem to be the cause of it. she absolutely hates this guy who is like my best friend and also happens to be the guy i like at the current time. i don't want something like that to ruin our friendship. what should i do?
ok this is what i think yo should do...tell your friend that you really like this kid and that maybe you see him different than many people but try not to hang out with them together because there might be a little competion but honestly fighting with your friend is ok a little but to much isnt cool...if yall are fighting over stupid little things you need to try to just forgive and forget like for example my bff (kelsey) and i have got in a lot of stupid little arguement but we always make up so its best to just talk about it then move on and go back to normal but remember chick over dicks and never ditch your friend for this guy you like! please tell me how it goes