Hey everyone.
My name is Chrissy, I'm 22 years old.
I'm married and am expecting a baby girl!
I recently started using this website again.
I had forgotten why I loved it so much. There is a feeling of accomplishment that I get when I give others advice to the best of my ability. It makes me feel as though I matter. And I hope it makes others feel the same way.
I work at as a 911 dispatcher so my profession is to help people. If you need any advice just let me know, I will definitely try my best to help you out. I have been through some pretty rough stuff ranging from relationship problems, to self esteem issues, to family violence.
So there is quite a range of things that I can give advice about due to my own experiences.
Ask me anything. (:
Website: Chrissy's Advice
E-mail: princess_all_4_me@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: 911 Dispatcher
Age: 21
Yahoo: princess_all_4_me
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ok. i have 2 best friends who i've been inseperable from since like 4th grade (one of them though since like kindergarten). and now i'm going into highschool. we're always together, (most of the time lol) i can tell them anything, we have so many laughs and fun times together, and i can totally be myself around them, which is great because i'm really shy. but last year, well technically still this year..lol 8th grade.. the one who i haven't been friends with since kindergarten..lets call her Jen. well Jen has been occasionally telling me some stuff about the other friend "Rachel" about how she annoys her sometimes, and stuff like that. ok so i was just talking to my friend Jen online. and this is sort of what she tells me:
she was like: no offense because i know you are really good friends with Rachel but i really dont like hanging out with her. then she gives me all these reasons why. she also telling me that she thinks Rachel has become conceited, and gave me a reason. "she just like acts immature sometimes and tries to be funny when she's not" thats also something she said. "like I'll be her friend and everything.but i definitely don't want to hang out with her a lot in highschool"
so my question is. do you think it is right of her to say this? we're supposed to be BEST FRIENDS, yet she's saying all this shit behind Rachel's back. i don't want our friendship to just die, i mean i have the greatest times with these two girls. high school will be a huge change and we'll make new friends and everything but i don't want it to completely tear apart our friendship. idk i just can't believe she's saying this because i feel like i have the best times when all 3 of us are together and now if Jen doesn't want to hang out with Rachel it will never be the same. what should i do/say to her? do you think it was right of her to say this? if you want the reasons of why Jen said what she said then give me your email and i'll tell you. thank you. (link)
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Well I dont think that it was right of "Jen" to sayy all that about Rachel. But if that is her oppionion then maybe yall will have to deal with the fact that yalls friendship isnt what it used to be. Someone told me once that you find out who your TRUE friends are in middle School--or Junior High-or whatever--lol.
It kinda sounds to me like "Jen" is worried about what PPl will think about her for hanging out with Rachel, but that is just myy oppionion.
Things happen for a reason--and we all just wish that we knew every reason that God has for doing stuff--but none of us do.
I think that Rachel and Jen need to talk about it with eachother--Jen needs to tell Rachel her feelings----so that yalls friendship can be healed.
Myy advice to you is to get them together so that theyy cann fix it. and it would be good for you to be there too.
Hope I helped..if you havve anyy questions about myy advice e-mail me at princess_all_4_me@yahoo.com
thanx,
Kissyfurr
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Dear Chrissy, I have this friend we'll call me Kissy, she is so great how can I let her know this?
~*Brianna*~ (link)
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Well--I think you just did!?! But if you are talking about someone else-then just tell her. LOL
I love yo Bri!
Kissyfurr
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there is this guy i met, and he got my # and said he would call. he seemed like he really liked me, but i haven't talked to him and it has been 2 weeks what do i do?
Cyan (link)
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Dear Cyan--Maybe he hasnt has the time to call..or maybe he is a liar. If I were you I would have gotten his number too--that wayy--You could call if you wanted. Well--It's okayy Cyan--Maybe he lost your #...I dont know..but I do know that we should tryy and believe the best of everyone--not the worst. So...just hope for the best!
Sorry if that was bad it's just I am kinda rustyy--I havent given advice in a while...I love you gurl!
Kissyfurr
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ok my sister's friend she had a fling with an older guy, but now she is going out with an awesome guy but he calls and tells her he misses her, and she is really confused and she wants my opinion what should I tell her??????
~*Brianna*~ (link)
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give her the
great advice that you gave her earlier, lol
~ChRiSsY~
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