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Hi my name is Kimberley and i live on a small farm in Tasmania were i do Home school with my little brother and my big sister. I like to go horse riding on my horse Ella and i also have a pet Rabbit called Mitzy, A chicken who sleeps in my bedroom called Belle And two guinea pigs called Lucky and Toffee.
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Age: 14
AIM: To be a Famous singer or Vet
Member Since: May 30, 2008
Answers: 6
Last Update: May 30, 2008
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one of my really good friends and i are in a fight and idk if we're gonna be friends again.he and i have been really good friends since december.a few weeks ago i thought i liked him..so i told him..cause were really good friends so i knew hed be cool with it..and he was..but then i found out that he was talking to this girl about it and he said it was weird now because he thought i was always all over him and always flirting with him..but i dont. and he was just talking crap about me.like we hug each other and tease each other but i do that with all my guy friends.i dont like him like that anymore.when i see him all i feel is friendship. but when i found out he was talking crap about me i got mad.
so the next time i saw him he went in to hug me and i said "are you sure you wanna do that?are you sure i wont be all over you?" and he just pretended to have no idea what i was talking about.now he wont talk to me at all and he just ignores me in the halls.idk what to do.weve been thru alot of ups and downs and i cant tell if this friendship is worth fighting for. how do i approach him?what do i say? will we be friends again? (link)
He obviously isn't a very good friend because if he was he wouldn't talk behind your back, but if he is the only friend you have, then he is worth fighting for.

If you want him to stay your friend, call his house if you have his phone number and tell him that you are really sorry and that you just didn't like it how he went around saying stuff behind your back. If you don't have his phone number, corner him in the school hall and say the same thing.

Just follow your dreams and your heart
Never follow your brain.


I'll make this short. I recently tried making a clean break from a guy-friend who's hurt me in the past. I haven't told him exactly why he hurt me, just that he hurt me before and he took it badly.
Now his girlfriend/my best friend wants me to talk it out to him. You know, try and give him a second (well technically third) chance, and discuss what's wrong. She promised that it was my choice if I wanted to, she was just suggesting trying but I really don't know.
He's friends with a lot of my friends, and I don't want to make them think they have to choose. And I haven't told him WHY, so maybe that will help.
But I don't want to be hurt again. What should I do? (link)
Explain to him what happened, or tell your friend what happened.




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