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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me..

My best friend Dapney is always hanging out with this boy named Courtney (he's in the 7th grade) she acts like she's not with him.I know she is ,so I kind of know how you feel.No one makes fun of the thought that they might go toghether so why should people at your school think that.Trust me I'm not the only person who thought of that.
First you need to decide if your really like this guy as a friend and a more than friends.If you really like him as friend like a shoulder to lean on and as someone who'd reject you in a nice way.If he's a good friend than you shouldn't jeprodize that friendship unless you know that you can deal with not being his friend or girlfriend.Now the move that I tell everygirl is to ask a friend of you and him to say:do you want a girlfriend cause kendra [she] said that if you don't she doesn't want to be a royal pain in the ass!!!

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All my best friend talks about is her computer! Me & my other friends will talk about what we did over the weekend, and "Ellie" will just talk about gigabites, megabites, and that sort of stuff. We don't understand that sorta stuff at all! How can we get her to talk about normal people stuff, like guys, parties, or even her pets?!

Just ignore her and than she'll come around.

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