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Q: hey guys.. i have a problem. My really close friend since 2 years has been cutting herslef and i only found out in September this year. I ALWAYS tell her to stop because its not good for her but she wont! I ask her why and she would never give me a straight answer or she would just change the subject. I recalled her saying that one of the reason she does it is because shes muslim and ever since 9/11 some people have been very racsit about it, saying that ALL musilm people are like that. She never tells me when something is bugging her and i really care for her but im not sure how i can help her. No, im not going to an older person about it because i know she doesnt want anyone to know abotu it. Her legs are really scarred from it. Can anyone give me any ideas of how i can convince her to stop? (BTW she doesnt listen to anyone when they tell her)
Thanks alot for listening and any advice is greatly appreciated.
-Krazy
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Well, if she won't listen to anyone, then there is really nothing you can do. Maybe you could tell her parents about this...they might manage to get her to a therapist or maybe talk her out of not cutting herself. Or maybe she's going through some sort of phase...lots of my friends use to cut themselves, but they realized how wrong and dangerous it is and they eventually stopped.
Sorry, idk if my advice was helpful or not.
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Q: i dont know what to do!!!please help me i am sooooo depressed!!! my friend nicole is sooooooooo mean to me!!!!!! she is soooooo nice sometimes.. but sooooo mean .. what do i do!!!!she is like my best feind... but she can be sooo mean.. ill give you an example... well
1. she never listens to me
2. and she NEVER STOPS SAYING MARR HARR!!!
you dont get it!!
i ask her to stop and she just keeps talking!!grr marr harr marr harr marr harr marr harr!!!
lol... not
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okay.....sounds like nicole is a REALLY wierd person. i think you might want to find some, more, uhh, normal friends.
because, trust me, nobody says marr harr anymore. that's so 90's.
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Q: My best friend is very selfish and always takes advantage of me and i dont like it, and i have like no other friends anymore because i was always trying to please her (shes kinda high maintenence) and shes hard to talk to about this stuff because shell get all mad and defensive and wind up manipulating me to make me think that im the bad person, but really everyone tells me how shes bad and now she wants me to do drugs and get tattoos and other stuff that i dont think i wanna do... but i have no other friends..so what do i do.
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alright, i used to have the same problem. i knew a girl that did the exact same things to me. i tried talking to her about it, and she acted all innocent and got mad at me. so don't try talking to her about this. i think you should find better, nicer friends...ones that are going to treat you well and with respect. don't take crap from her, tell her you're done. and you won't have to suffer any more.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Florida Occupation: student Member Since: August 7, 2006 Answers: 14 Last Update: March 6, 2009 Visitors: 2412
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