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i don't know what to do. i like one of my best guy friends a lot and have done so for a while now. he and i have always been really close in the past, like brother and sister. there was nothing one didn't know about hte other. he also knows that i like him and was ok with it, or at least that was what he said. and i was so greatful for that because i would hate to lose him. he means to world to me. but recently he and i have grown very distant. we hardly talk and i feel like i don't know him any more. it hurts so much to remember how good things were only to realize that it's practically gone. i've also learned recently (through a 3rd party) that he's not only not 'ok' with my liking him, he really wishes i didn't. i feel like i'm losing him as a friend if i haven't lost him already... basically i'm asking if you think i should try and keep the friendship or just let it go and accept it. i don't know what i should do, i'm hoping you can help. (by the way, i'm a 16 year old female) (link)
I think that you should accept it and move on. If he's not comfortable with you liking him, perhaps it's best to just let it go. I've been in a similar situation myself. You might want to try keeping a friendship with him, but stay away from going further than that. If that doesn't work, it may be best to just let it go altogether. I hope I helped!

~Kura




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